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Two Guns + The Apache Death Cave

by Kaylah Stroup September 19, 2016
Arizona

I originally found Two Guns on Roadside America back in 2014. It was right on the way to where we were heading except we were majorly crunched for time. We had reservations and had to check into our wigwam before the front office closed for the night.   But Two Guns!!!! It looked amazing. We had to stop, there was no two ways about it. Jeff and I agreed we’d only spend ten minutes there so we both got out of the car and literally ran from building to building snapping photos like crazy. The ten minutes was up in no time at all. We got back to the car gasping for breath and full of adrenaline. My pictures weren’t that great but it’s honestly one of my favorite memories from that whole trip.

To this day, we still talk about that visit all the time. I’ve even exclaimed that I want to get married there someday. They’re just some silly abandoned buildings but they became something special because our brief visit was so fun.

Each trip out west Jeff and I try to take a different route so that we aren’t just doing the exact same thing over and over. So far, other than the airport we fly into, we’ve done a pretty great job at this. A few days before we left for this year’s trip Jeff text me to say he had just realized we’d be near Two Guns. Swinging by this year would only add seven minutes to our drive so obviously it was a necessity to stop and actually take our time there.

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When I first got into geocaching at the beginning of this year I was blown away by the fact that there are basically geocaches everywhere. One of my first thoughts was “I wonder if there was a geocache at Two Guns!” Sure enough there is but it’s WAY cooler than I could have ever imagined. Since the second we read the description, Jeff and I have been basically frothing at the mouth to get this thing. The cache isn’t near the abandoned buildings, instead it’s underground… in the Apache Death Cave. I won’t go into it but the cave has a crazy interesting history, as made quite obvious by the name. You can read more about it here. There’s even more insanity not listed in that article if you still feel like digging around!

We wandered around the abandoned stuff for a while, getting all the shots we weren’t able to take on our first visit then it came time to find the cache. We took the short hike over to where we thought the cave might be and sure enough there she was. The photo below shows where you climb down. In older photos I found on google it appears that those logs used to have boards going across so the walk down was fairly easy but these days you choose a log and hope your balance is good enough. Jeff took this really cute photo of me walking up the logs!

You guys, I love adventure. I like exploring new places, and I like a bit of danger. I love when my adrenaline is pumping and I talk a big game but when it comes right down to it, sometimes I’m a giant weenie. I was terrified in this cave. Not because of bats, or the dark but because I was afraid rocks would fall and we’d be trapped. I was afraid the cave, which is said to be cursed, would end up being our one final adventure.

Jeff, on the other hand, basically had the time of his life in this cave. He even said “I think I can retire from geocaching now.” because seriously, how could a cache be in a cooler spot than this one?! Despite being afraid, I was definitely enjoying myself. It was a true adventure! How many people can say they explored a real cave in the middle of the desert? Not somewhere you have to pay an admission fee, and have a guide. But a reeeeal cave. IT. WAS. AWESOME.

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After making it out of the cave alive, wahooo, we poked around the property a bit more checking out the ruins of buildings. We didn’t get a chance to see this area last year so it was all new to us. Then when I started researching the cave after leaving I realized we missed a few more buildings that hold fairly significant history here. Guess that just means we have to go back again…

Until next time, Two Guns!!
xoxo

To see more posts from this trip + others, check out the “travel” tag.

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Friday Favorites #382

by Kaylah Stroup September 16, 2016
 Last year I realized that sweaters from Sugarhill Boutique were basically the bee’s knees. They fit me so well. Aaaand now it’s like they’re designing things just for me! I NEED this sweater.
(via: Modcloth)
 Donut kid yourself, this patch is adorable.

 

 (via: Amazon)
I was just thinking how sad I will be to take down my moon calendar when the year ends but then I spotted this which is incredibly similar…and maybe even a little bit cooler!
 (via: Moorea Seal)
This teaching model kills me. It’s beeeeautiful!
(via: towerpoppies)
I absolutely love this print by Leigh Cox!
 (via: Leigh Cox)
Not even going to lie, from the main photo on the listing I thought this was a candle and I thought it sounded awesome. When I went to grab a photo for this post I realized it wasn’t a candle at all but literal maple cream… and I’m still super into it! That sounds delicious.
 (via: The Syrup Shop)
This shirt!
 (via: Curious Prints)
I basically enjoy all cutesy kitchen items but this mushroom mortar and pestle takes the cake!!
(via: Modcloth)
Cactus tooth pick holder!
 (via: Mustard)
I can always find room for one more patch, especially when it’s a cactus!
 (via: PatchMeSo)
Boy, this post sure has a theme this week, huh? Why stop now? Here’s a cactus watch!
 (via: Moorea Seal)
I saved the best for last, Melissa from Miss Missy Paper Dolls made a paper doll of me… and it’s the absolute coolest thing ever.

(via: Miss Missy Paper Dolls)

Link love…
▴ Spine candle! Perfect for Halloween…or all year long if you’re like me!
▴ Opted to share a link to this instead of including the photo because even I can admit it’s a little creepy, but I kiiiind of need this for my collection of dental odds and ends.
▴ You guys, I don’t even drink but there was no way I could not share this corgi bottle stopper with you. It’s so cute!
▴ This studio applause sign is super neat.
▴ Love this gold bralette and panties set!

Happy Friday!!
xoxo

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Roswell, New Mexico

by Kaylah Stroup September 14, 2016
alien

The second night of our 3rd annual trip out west we had a hotel booked in Roswell. This was/is super exciting to me for two reasons...

One – when I was in middle school I was obsessed with aliens. I read every book I could find on them. I had all sorts of alien accessories, and probably wanted nothing more than to actually see some. While I’m not as into them as I was then, I definitely still believe in aliens and there is special place in my heart that loves all tacky alien related things.

Two – Roswell has been somewhere I have wanted to go for yeeears. A long time ago, toward the beginning of The Dainty Squid, I was working with a company and the person in charge of their social media stuff, Kiran, was super friendly. I remember making small talk with him, and he mentioned something about how he had just gotten back from a roadtrip and how cool Roswell was. He sent me a bunch of photos of silly alien stuff and from the second I saw those photos I knew I had to go to Roswell.  It would be years before I ever made it out west, and then a few more years before I made it to Roswell but Kiran put the bug under my skin to want to travel. I know I’ve talked a few times about how I felt stuck in my pre-Cleveland life, and traveling anywhere just seemed like something I’d never do. To finally get there felt amazing, and way more special than I could ever explain.

roswell

We drove into Roswell, and immediately checked into the our hotel room. I wasn’t too impressed with what I saw on the drive through but felt like I needed to give it a real chance. So that evening, while Jeff napped, I went out with just my camera and wandered around Roswell by foot. It didn’t take long before I was completely enthralled. Every where you look is something alien related. It’s incredibly tacky, in the best way. The town has a handful of alien gift shops, and a UFO museum but even the “regular” businesses had aliens sprinkled into their advertising. There was a furniture store with little aliens relaxing on their couches!! The thing that surprised me the most was that no one has cashed in and made an alien themed hotel. I mean, even McDonalds is shaped like UFO there! As soon as someone builds one, I’ll be back!

even the street lights are aliens!

If you aren’t into aliens, or didn’t go through an alien phase at some point in your life, you probably wouldn’t think Roswell was all that special. While they definitely could do more to make it a better tourist trap, it’s still a lovely little town. I’m so happy to finally be able to cross it off my list.
xoxo

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how I style my hair

by Kaylah Stroup September 13, 2016
the dainty squid hair, green hair

I’ve talked about my hair a lot, a lot, a lot on the blog. Really, the main ~thing~ about my hair is the color, I’m not ashamed to admit nothing else too impressive is going on. Genetics have “blessed” me with fine hair is insanely straight. While lots of people would probably kill for my straight hair, I’d gladly trade it without a second thought. (I know, I know, you always want whatever you don’t have when it comes to hair!) I’ve never really been a fan of my hair other than the colors I pizazz it up with so when I get comments or emails asking how I style my hair it feels like a real victory!  I thought it’d be fun to share a little bit about how I achieve my looks.

My daily hair products + a little bit about what they do…
▴ Sparks Color Care Sulfate-Free Shampoo + Conditioner – My shampoo and conditioner for the last few months. It doesn’t lather as much as I’m used to with shampoos but still leaves my hair feeling clean.
▴ Pantene Pro-V Serious Repair Detangler  – I only recently started using this since deciding to grow my hair out. It makes my hair sooo easy to brush out when it’s wet. If I only use one product for the day after washing, it’s this!
▴ Hask Placenta – My all time favorite hair product. It’s a leave in conditioning treatment. I apply generously to wet hair.
▴ Pantene Pro-V Smooth Heat Protecting Spray – A must if you’re doing any kind of heat styling.
▴ Evo Love Touch – This just goes on the ends of my hair on days I feel like it could use a little extra shine. It smells SO good.
▴ Sparks Color Care Protecting Spray – Think of it as sunscreen for your hair. Helps fight fading and makes a world of difference if you’re going to be out in the sun. I apply one spray to the top of my head when my hair is wet and brush through. A little goes a very long way, too much and my hair is greasy.
▴ Pantene Pro-V Non-Aerosol Hairspray – Nothing too special, just my current hairspray of choice. I normally only use it on my bangs to help keep them in place.

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So, how I style hair is depends on what length it is. Uh, duh? I’ve been rocking some fairly short hair for a few years now so we’ll start with that. For the longest time I really had no idea what to do with my hair and simply just blow dried it without any further styling. Then I discovered that a round brush would make a world of difference!

 

When my hair is short I will simply separate it into three layers, basically just top, middle, and bottom, and blow dry each layer using the round brush to achieve a bit of a curl. I start on the bottom layer and tend to pay the most attention to the front since it’s usually the longest.

 

It’s nothing special, definitely one of those putting lots of effort into looking like you just woke up things. Without doing this my hair is literally pin straight. Not the good kind of straight either, like stuck to my head straight. A round brush is a necessity for me when my hair is short. Eventually it gets to a length when this no longer works, or rather it just takes too long so I move onto my next style…
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Spoiler alert: my long hair styling is nothing more than the result of foam rollers!

Right now I’m rocking the longest hair I’ve had in quite a few years which means I’m having to figure out what in the world to do with it. Blow drying it with the round brush everyday is out of the question. It takes up too much time. My hair isn’t even that long but once it gets past a certain point I swear, the amount of time it takes to blow dry doubles. I can’t even imagine what it’s like for you ladies with actual long hair. I prefer to use my blow dryer as little as possible, that heat isn’t good for your hair.

After towel drying my hair, I apply the products listed near the beginning of this post. I brush it out and then scrunch it up with my fingers. From there I go about my business as normal. I make breakfast, drink coffee, sit down and answer some emails. By the time I’m done doing all my morning things my hair is nearly dry so I will blow dry upside down just to get a little bit more volume and toss in some foam rollers. I’ve had this set since 2013, and they’re still going strong. I use the largest size, the pink ones, for my whole head of hair once it’s around shoulder length. If it’s shorter I’ll use a mix of the largest, pink, and the next size down, green.

How long I leave them in depends on what I’m doing that day / what time I need to be ready. On days I work at the flower shop and have to be out of the house relatively early they only stay in an hour or so. On days that I don’t have anywhere to be and my errands aren’t urgent, the rollers might stay in two hours or longer. If I have to run outside I toss a scarf of my head. After I take them out I’ll shake my hair out and run my fingers through the curls. It’s usually pretty crazy for the first half an hour but since my hair just looooves to be straight the curls settle down quickly. TA-DA!

above: curls from foam rollers after a full day.
below:  foam roller curls with shorter hair. More photos of this hair here.
the dainty squid, green hair

No matter the length of my hair or what I’m planning to do with it, I always curl my bangs with a curling iron. I own this one. It heats up quickly, and on a low setting does exactly what I’d like
for my bangs – a tiny bit of volume so they’re not stuck to my forehead!

I had this post finished and ready to go live when I got a curling wand from NuMe in the mail. Isn’t it just like a curling iron? NO! It’s safe to say I’m obsessed. I’m still not super stoked about using heat styling on my hair. But the cuuuuurls! My goodness, y’all! Can you say dream hair?! I can’t wait to share photos soon. I’ll be back with a full report on how I like this thing oh so soon.
xoxo

Psst. If you have any hair questions or are looking for some tips, check out my hair masterpost! 

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Dead Horse Bay

by Kaylah Stroup September 7, 2016

The whole reason we dipped down into New York after Maine was Dead Horse Bay. I have wanted to go to this beach for oh so long! While planning the trip and looking for fun things to do along the way I thought “Hmm, I wonder how much time Dead Horse Bay would add to the drive?” Mapping everything out showed that it really wouldn’t add any more time but would simply take us a different route home which is always ideal anyway. I asked Jeff what he thought and since he’s basically down for anything, he agreed it’d be an awesome stop.

The original plan was to hit the beach around sunset on Sunday evening but we spent too much time geocaching and goofing around in Boston. (Totally worth it!) It started to pour the rain down, and I highly highly hiiiighly underestimated what a mess New York City traffic is. So needless to say getting to the beach in time for a beautiful sunset didn’t happen.

I was feeling pretty defeated by the city and how incredibly difficult it is to get around by car. I know, everyone else in the world is like “duhhh!” but I’m used to Cleveland’s easy breezy traffic. I basically sat in the car with my eyes closed while Jeff thoroughly enjoyed the aggressive driving style you have to take on. I honestly didn’t know if we’d make it to Dead Horse Bay at all just because of time constraints and how long it was taking to get around.

I was overjoyed to finally get to the parking lot, gear up in my brand new rubber boots, and start hiking toward the beach. We walked down a road that said it was for those with fishing permits only. The beach was in sight but the second we stepped on to it I knew we were in the wrong spot. Too clean. It was hot, and despite it not being a terribly long walk, both Jeff and I were pooped out. I groveled “We can just leave if you want. It’s not a big deal.”

While we walked back to the car I did a little bit more looking around online for details on where exactly the beach is. We eventually realized we had to cross the road to get to it. There was mention of a wooded trail which we found right away once on the correct side of the road. What everyone failed to mention was the mosquitoes. You guys, I grew up in the country, I am no stranger to mosquito bites. But I have never in my life been bitten SO many times. At any given moment there would be at least six of them biting. It was hell. I was nearly in tears. Yeah, they were that bad. I felt like the path would never end. I couldn’t understand how we hadn’t reached the water yet. We eventually emerged from the woods, the mosquitoes cleared, and it was everything I had hoped it would be!

Dead Horse Bay, New York City

So, Dead Horse Bay, what the heck is it? One yelp user calls it “an abomination!” Another says “Disgusting! Fascinating! Free souvenirs!” I’m on the side of the second person. In the nineteenth century the area was home to a few horse rendering plants. The harbor was used as a dumping ground for the chopped up bones which would wash up on shore. Later the marsh was used a landfill which quickly filled up and needed to be sealed. Eventually, in the 1950s, that cap broke. Since then garbage has been spewing into the ocean and washing up on shore. The beach is covered in bottles, many of which are completely intact, and tons of other random items that have a hard time decomposing, like soles of shoes. There are even a few abandoned boats! Sooo, it’s basically a trash beach …and it’s amazing.

My time at Dead Horse Bay was short but I loved every second. I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but this place is exactly my style. I could have poked around for days! It’s an absolute treasure trove. When it comes right down to it, it’s trash, but it’s trash that’s full of history. Many of the bottles were from products no longer manufactured! It breaks my heart that I didn’t have more time to spend there.

I made sure my camera bag was full of other random empty bags for all the treasures I might find. I didn’t know what I’d end up leaving with but I knew there was no way I’d come away from here empty handed. Surprisingly, my pile of loot was fairly small. I brought home four small bottles, two pieces of pottery, a claw, and a shell. My favorite of the bunch is a little brown bottle that has taken on a new shape. I definitely let out an audible noise of approval when I realized it wasn’t broken at all.

If I lived nearby you know darn well that I’d have all sorts of little arrangements of bottles set up around the area. I honestly can’t believe that there weren’t any along the large pieces of driftwood or in the abandoned boats. Apparently from time to time the trees in the area have bottles strung up in them but sadly, I didn’t see any.

New York City, I will be back! I will explore you properly and I will love you. Dead Horse Bay, I already love you. I cannot wait to come back and hunt for more treasures.
xoxo

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Granary Burying Ground

by Kaylah Stroup September 5, 2016
Boston, headstone,

After checking out of our hotel in Waterville, Maine Sunday morning we started the drive to New York City. We weaved our way through precious little ocean towns, and stopped at a handful of geocaches along the way. Throughout the trip I had been checking Roadside America because that’s what I do when I’m anywhere I’m unfamiliar with. Coming up, in Boston, was Mother Goose’s Gravesite*. Jeff desperately wanted to visit Boston since he’d never been there but I was insisting we waited until we actually had time to explore the city. I wasn’t interested in spending a small amount of time, I wanted to wait until we had enough time to see everything Boston had to offer. Well, that was until I clicked on the photo of Mother Goose’s headstone. IT HAD A SKULL!

Okay, so if you’ve been keeping up to date with my cemetery posts you might recall me mentioning that I love headstone symbolism. There is tons of it here but Ohio just isn’t old enough to have the kind of stuff I really want to find. Number one on my wishlist of things to find was a skull. The fact that I was guaranteed to find one, and on Mother Goose’s headstone of all places, meant I was all of a sudden SUPER interested in Boston.

In no time at all, I mean other than that 25 minute detour because of ONE single wrong turn, we were in Granary Buying Ground. I have never in my life seen a cemetery so full of people. I guess it’s not too surprising though considering the amount of history packed into this small space. John Hancock, Paul Revere, and Samuel Adams are just a few of the big names buried here. Not even going to lie though, despite being surprised at the amount of historical figures here, the highlight for me continued to be the fact that nearly every single headstone was decorated with a skull. I was in heaven!

Granary Burying Ground is the third oldest cemetery in Boston, founded in 1660, which makes Cleveland’s oldest cemetery (1826!) sound like it was started just yesterday. It also means this is easily the oldest cemetery I have ever been in. It is safe to say they just don’t make ’em like they used to.

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Mary Goose’s grave.

The only thing that would have made this cemetery more enjoyable for me is if it wasn’t packed full of living people (and if it hadn’t been one thousand degrees!) I imagine on a cool weekday this place is an absolute dream. I’m still looking forward to seeing more of Boston some day, even more than I was being this very brief visit. Granary Burying Ground was an excellent first impression of the city.
xoxo

*Apparently she is not THE Mother Goose. Some sources say the myth was started to encourage tourism to the cemetery. If you’d like to do more reading on the subject you can do so here. Regardless, it got me to this cemetery and it was an incredibly headstone so it’s all good by me.

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where I work…

by Kaylah Stroup September 1, 2016

For basically as long as The Dainty Squid has had a space on the internet I’ve been sharing photos of what where I work looks like. I’ve moved around a lot, and even when I’m in the same space for a long-ish period of time I rearrange almost constantly. It keeps me sane. I often browse my own archives and I always enjoy looking back at what my surroundings looked like at any given time. If anything, I wish I would have taken more photos of my previous spaces.

At the very end of last year I moved my office into this small room, which was previously my bedroom. The other room, my now bedroom, was just a little too big for me. Switching the two was a great decision that I haven’t thought twice about. My furniture, on the other hand, is something I can’t get off my mind. My big glass top desk was just a little bit too large, not just for the space but for me. I didn’t need all that room. It always ended up becoming home to a pile of papers or other random misplaced items.

One evening a few weeks back I had the idea of switching my glass desk around with my sewing desk. I wasn’t sure if it would work or not just because the room has a bit of a strange layout with low windows, and an awkwardly placed closet buuuut it didn’t matter – I had to give it a go. The sewing desk is literally so heavy that I had to lay down on my back and push it around with my legs. For about two hours the whole back side of my apartment was a disaster zone, and I’m sure I looked nuts but it worked out wonderfully! The smaller desk is much better suited to be my computer desk, especially since it has nice little cubbies for all my knick knacks!

The glass top desk juuuust fits into the opposite corner of the room. I didn’t include any full photos of it because there’s nothing on it. It’s kind of just a randomly placed desk right now. I’m thinking of making it my “mail center” when the weather cools down and I get back into snail mail. For now I really enjoy how tidy it looks with nothing on it.

To be completely honest, most days I work from my new favorite coffee shop. I’m very easily distracted so if there are dishes in the sink, if there is a dog begging to be pet, or a floor that needs vacuumed – I’m going to do that instead of work at my computer. In the last few months I’ve found coffee shops to be exactly what I need in terms of a place to work without distraction. I can sit down and just kill my to do list without thinking about anything else I “need” to do.

I never really thought I’d end up being one of those people that works from a coffee shop but there’s something to it! The amount of time I’ve been spending there compared to the amount of time in this room definitely has me thinking about my next apartment and if I actually need a dedicated office. Only time will tell, and I’m sure I’ll change my mind fifty six times but for now I have a really cute little office space that I enjoy.
xoxo

office inspo, home tour, the dainty squid, computer room

A few sources
▴ desk  
▴ floral calendar  – 2017 version here!
▴ see the world pennant
▴ trouble + pizza inspector patches
▴ friend to bugs patch 
▴ be kind patch
▴ waffle scented candle – it’s amazing, just go for it! 
▴ where is my mind print 
▴ teeth containers
▴ keyboard decals
The circle shelf is from Home Goods. Plant stand, maps, shark trash can and medical models are
vintage. Blue cart is from Ikea. If you’re curious
about anything else, just ask!

You can view all of my other previous office set ups under the tag “where I work“, and see more of my apartment under the tag “apartment“.

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listening, watching, reading

by Kaylah Stroup August 31, 2016

Twice in the past I’ve shared posts titled “listening, watching, playing” (Find them here + here) This mini series of sorts started after a reader recommended something similar to my what I’ve been reading posts, except with movies, shows, music and more. It’s been a while since my last installment, long enough that I’m finally listening and watching different things, so I figured it was time for an update!

Listening
According to last.fm I’ve been listening to a lot of AFI…because apparently I’m fifteen again. The Art of Drowning has just been on repeat. There are very few albums out there that I can listen to and enjoy the whole thing and this is one of them. A few others, off the top of my head, include Taking Back Sunday’s Tell All Your Friends, all Man Man albums, and most recently, Aesop Rock’s The Impossible Kid.

I’m still really into Spotify’s recommended playlist, Discover Weekly, that they make at the beginning of each week. Some weeks it’s way off but the majority of the time I find at least a handful of new songs to listen to on repeat. As someone who gets stuck in patterns of listening to the same thing over and over again, it’s fun to hear a variety of new things.

Watching
Like everyone else in the world, I watched and thoroughly enjoyed Stranger Things. I’m impatiently waiting for season two. What else on Netflix have I been watching?
Jane the Virgin – why do I love this show so much!?
Animism – a documentary about people who love objects. Yep...
Shameless – Why, oh why aren’t the rest of the seasons on Netflix? I’m obsessed.
St. Vincent – Caused me to ugly cry. It was a good one, for sure.

Other than that, I was excited to find that there was a new season of Expedition Unknown available to stream. I don’t have cable or anything, just Netflix, so I’m always a season behind on things. Josh Gates is basically the best TV show host, ever. He’s hilarious, super smart, and adorable. I’m pretty sure Jeff and I both want to be him. In this show he investigates legends and mysteries, often looking for lost treasure or lost cities. I wish there were unlimited episodes (…and that him and Guy Fieri were hosts of every TV show because I love them so very much.) If there is only one thing from this post that you check out make it Expedition Unknown!

Nearly forgot to add, RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars season two! So many of my favorite queens are back. Ahhh! I don’t even know who I’m rooting for yet! 

book review,

Reading
I’m trying SO hard to get back into reading. I don’t know that I’ll ever get back to how much I used to read but anything is better than nothing. I hit up Half Priced Books the other day hoping to get lucky and score Mary Roach’s new book, Grunt, for cheap. Sadly, they didn’t have it in stock but I did manage to find a few other books that sounded interesting and were super affordable. With a little pile of new books, I found a renewed enthusiasm for reading. I’ve even spent a few evenings at the beach reading while the sun set.

I’m currently over three-quarters of the way through Prude by Emily Southwood… and loving it! In my past what I’ve been reading posts I’ve expressed my interest in anything to do with sex work, so immediately this book had my attention. It’s about a woman whose fiance lands a job filming a reality show about porn, and her struggle to accept it. The author’s writing is humorous and although, I don’t know that’s it’s meant to be, it’s thought provoking. If it sounds like something you’d be interested in, I definitely recommend it!


So, what have you been listening, watching, reading, playing, etc? I’m always looking for recommendations.
xoxo

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Maple Grove Cemetery

by Kaylah Stroup August 29, 2016
Maine

If you thought I was going to go to New England and not come home with a thousand cemetery photos, you clearly don’t know me very well. These aren’t quite as interesting as the ones with the creepy faces from Old Bennington Cemetery and not even a quarter as awesome as some I found at another cemetery I visited the next day but this was still an excellent stop.

I had passed this cemetery on my way to Pemaquid Point but was driving too fast to stop since there were cars behind me. I chalked it up as a loss, and had completely forgotten about it until on my way back to the hotel I ended up at the red light across the street and figured I haaad to stop! Right after pulling in the sky opened up and it started to pour. My plans for the evening included swimming in the hotel pool anyway, so why not get wet a little bit early?

Maple Grove Cemetery, maine

Back in March I visited and blogged about Mound View Cemetery in Mount Vernon, Ohio. One of my favorite headstones there was one that just said “Carrie”. Since that one finding headstones that only have the first name on them has become one of my favorite things. It’s so mysterious. Of course, one could presume it’s because family is nearby but some of them are so far from other headstones it’s hard to tell if they’re related to anyone else there. In this cemetery I actually found a few of them. My favorite of which is “Annie”, seen below.

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