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hornet’s nest shadow box

by Kaylah Stroup August 1, 2024
hornets nest shadow box

Last summer hornets built a nice big nest on our house. I got stung once and it was enough to keep me far far away for the rest of the season. We could have sprayed them but honestly, after that sting, it felt risky. Neither my husband nor I wanted to go anywhere near them. Instead, we opted to just leave them be and let Ohio’s winter do the work for us.

This spring, after the weather warmed up and we were more than positive the hornets were long gone, we knocked the nest down. I picked it up, fully intending to take it over to my compost pile but my brain screamed “CRAFT SUPPLY!” Hornets build their nest out of saliva and wood pulp. The result is layers and layers of a beautiful papery material. Truly, when I saw it up close, there was no way I could just toss it on the compost.

So, I did what any rational human would do and brought it inside. I shook the nest upside down, from which a few deceased hornets fell out, and removed the nest cells from inside. While all the hornets were dead, there still seemed to be a large number of other small insects. I have a house filled with taxidermy, and pinned insects so bringing weird little live bugs like that inside is not great. I bagged everything up and popped it into the freezer to kill off anything remaining.

hornets nest

The one craft I knew I wanted to do from the start was to make a shadow box containing nest cells, the hornets and the gorgeous papery nest material. I rehydrated the hornets and posed them as I wanted. I used spray adhesive to attach the paper to the cardboard of my shadow box and then glued the nesting cells to that. It took basically no time at all but was so much fun to make. Not to mention, it makes a rad addition to my collection of ‘oddities’!

pinned hornet
hornet's nest shadow box
hornet's nest shadow box

My two favorite details in this project are both easily overlooked! One is the hornet that died while emerging from its cell. He’s just peeking out! Second is the addition of two tiny insects that I found in the nest cell (literally the reason I threw everything in the freezer to begin with!) When I pulled the cells out of the ziplock bag and shook them out, it rained tiny bugs. It was… gross and further proved that it was a really good idea to freeze everything but now dead, they pose no threat. I felt like it’d be really cool to glue a few into the cells since they were a part of this whole thing as well. They’re quite small but if you look closely at the image below you can spot one in the center of the photo.

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▲ Looking to get into pinning insects – check out this blog post I wrote with tons of resources, links + info! ▲ Check out my other hornet’s nest project inside the box for my four leaf clover collection!

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FeatherSnap bird feeder review

by Kaylah Stroup July 18, 2024
FeatherSnap bird feeder review

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I recently got my hands on a FeatherSnap bird feeder. It’s a Wi-Fi connected, smart bird feeder that captures pictures and videos of birds at your feeder. You can even watch live!

I thought it was a fun product idea but I think I underestimated just how much I’d enjoy it. For the past few weeks, I think it’s safe to say, this has been the most used app on my phone. Let me tell you a bit more about it…

smart bird feeder review
FeatherSnap smart bird feeder
smart bird feeder with camera

Some product highlights –

▴ Photo + video, obviously! The feeder snaps three photos and one fifteen-second video per visit. The video even has audio. The camera is only 4MP but it gets the job done, you can clearly see all who visit.

▴ Solar powered! The roof has a solar panel so you don’t need to worry about changing or charging up batteries. In the month I’ve had mine, I only had to charge it once and that was when it first arrived. The app makes it easy to see your battery percentage, mine has never dropped below 70%!

▴ Dual seed bin allows you to fill your feeder with two different seed types.

▴ You get real-time notifications of visitors to your feeder. Go from “who’s texting me now?!” to “who’s at the feeder?!”

▴ The app offers a ‘bird book‘ which is where you can keep track of all the different visitors you’ve had to your feeder. It also has a built-in AI feature to help you ID those visitors.

Bird ID, FeatherSnap

▴ Also worth noting is that because of the size and the way it’s mounted, squirrels don’t make a mess of the bird feed! In the past I’ve owned many bird feeders that hang from trees or shepherd’s hooks and squirrels always manage to spill those because they’re trying to balance on them. This feeder has a large platform that squirrels can comfortably sit on therefore they aren’t doing gymnastics trying to eat and don’t spill everywhere. I know not everyone likes squirrels at their feeders so of course, you can sprinkle hot pepper flakes in with your bird feed to keep them away.

Feathersnap bird feeder review
Feathersnap bluejays

A few downsides –

▴ I don’t feel like it’s made abundantly clear that the birdfeeder requires a monthly subscription to view the photos on your phone. I knew that it offered a subscription but I wrongly assumed that made the AI identification available. Without a subscription, the camera still works and you will receive notifications through the app that you had a visitor at the bird feeder but you will not be able to view those images. It is worth noting though, you can install a mini SD card in the camera and check the photos manually but that defeats the purpose of having an app.

At the time of writing this post, the subscription costs $6.99 per month or $59.99 annually.

▴ Video isn’t immediately available and must be “requested”. I don’t think I would have a problem with this if it worked every single time but alas, sometimes the video just never shows up.

▴ No way to remove ‘FeatherSnap’ watermark. Not a huge deal but it feels unnecessary to have it stamped on every single image and video, especially when you’re paying for a service.

Final thoughts –

I love this bird feeder. It has turned me on to a new hobby. I’ve always had bird feeders and enjoyed it when I’d happen to catch one having lunch there but this? This is something different! I LOVE watching the birds now.

Does it stink that there’s a subscription? Yes, of course. Like most folks these days, I’m subscription-ed out, man! Buuut, I do genuinely think this is worth it. Even with my small gripes about the feeder and app, I still think the good outweighs the bad. This has brought a lot of joy into my life. I LOVE checking who is visiting after every notification and whew, the thrill of getting a new type of bird? It’s the best.

For 100% transparency, I was gifted this bird feeder as part of a campaign but this blog post is not part of that. You can check out my sponsored post here.

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my four leaf clover collection

by Kaylah Stroup July 1, 2024
four leaf clover collection

For about five years now I’ve been collecting four leaf clovers. I didn’t have a specific place to put them after they dried. They’ve been shoved into notepads, lost in books, and floating around my office.

While cleaning out my basement I rediscovered a little green metal box. The tools that came in it are long since missing but the box itself? Just something about it scratched something in my brain. I didn’t want to get rid of it.

I decided to line it with a piece of hornet’s nest that had been on our house last year and fill it with my four leaf clover collection.

I’m using a fine line silver permanent marker to keep track of how many are inside. Just over 100 at the moment.

I love how it turned out. I can’t wait to add more!

four leaf clover collection
upcycled tool box
four leaf clover collection

Find previous four leaf clover content here, like the time I found sixty in one month!

Check out my tips for pressing plants here.

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what I’ve been reading

by Kaylah Stroup October 23, 2023
Dear Laura book review

Dear Laura by Gemma Amor.

‘Every year, on her birthday, Laura gets a letter from a stranger. That stranger claims to know the whereabouts of her missing friend Bobby, but there’s a catch: he’ll only tell her what he knows in exchange for something…personal.So begins Laura’s sordid relationship with her new penpal, built on a foundation of quid pro quo. Her quest for closure will push her to bizarre acts of humiliation and harm, yet no matter how hard she tries, she cannot escape her correspondent’s demands. The letters keep coming, and as time passes, they have a profound effect on Laura.’

One hundred and nineteen pages that I devoured in one sitting! I couldn’t put it down. I feel like this is a great one if you’re in a reading slump and need a quick push out of your rut. Highly recommended!

the glassy, burning floor of hell book review

The Glassy, Burning Floor of Hell by Brian Evenson.

‘A sentient, murderous prosthetic leg; shadowy creatures lurking behind a shimmering wall; brutal barrow men―of all the terrors that populate The Glassy, Burning Floor of Hell, perhaps the most alarming are the beings who decimated the habitable Earth: humans. In this new short story collection, Brian Evenson envisions a chilling future beyond the Anthropocene that forces excruciating decisions about survival and self-sacrifice in the face of toxic air and a natural world torn between revenge and regeneration. Combining psychological and ecological horror, each tale thrums with Evenson’s award-winning literary craftsmanship, dark humor, and thrilling suspense.’

I’m a quick reader. A lot of the times with anthologies I will read a handful of stories per reading session. This one took me some time to get through though but it’s not what you might be thinking… These stories took time for me to digest. I didn’t want to run to the next one right away, I wanted to keep pondering what I just read. Each story felt like it had so many layers I needed to peel away to really understand what I was reading. I really enjoyed this book. I feel like this would be a fun one to read along with a friend or book club so you can chat about what the heck you just read.

I Found a Circus Tent in the Woods Behind My House by Ben Farthing.

‘Dave and his four-year-old, Jacob, find a circus tent in the woods behind their house. A strange voice invites them through the dark doorway.
When they refuse, the tent swallows them…’

I am generally not frightened by horror books. Ghosts? Whatever. Murders? Meh. This book though? It got me, not even because of clowns! I don’t mind clowns. I just loathe the idea of finding something in the woods that shouldn’t be there. I loved this book. It was fun, tense and totally unique.

Fun little tip; listen to creepy carnival music quietly in the background while you read! I listened to this. It just adds to the atmosphere.

The author also wrote I Found Puppets Living In My Apartment Walls which I absolutely need to pick up as well!

On the theme of finding things in the woods that shouldn’t be there – The Twisted Ones by T. Kingfisher comes to mind. I loved that book and still think about it while I’m in my woods.

Camp Damascus by Chuck Tingle.

‘Welcome to Neverton, Montana: home to a God-fearing community with a heart of gold.
Nestled high up in the mountains is Camp Damascus, the self-proclaimed “most effective” gay conversion camp in the country. Here, a life free from sin awaits. But the secret behind that success is anything but holy.
And they’ll scare you straight to hell.’

I’ve followed Chuck Tingle on social media for some time now but had yet to read one of his books until his horror debut, Camp Damascus. Queer horror? Count me in! I loved this book. I even made my husband read it right after I finished. (He enjoyed it too!) It was a quick and easy read!

Hide by Kiersten White.

‘The challenge: Spend a week hiding in an abandoned amusement park and don’t get caught.
The prize: enough money to change everything. Even though everyone is desperate to win—to seize a dream future or escape a haunting past—Mack is sure she can beat her competitors. All she has to do is hide, and she’s an expert at that. It’s the reason she’s alive and her family isn’t. But as the people around her begin disappearing one by one, Mack realizes that this competition is even more sinister than she imagined, and that together might be the only way to survive.Fourteen competitors. Seven days. Everywhere to hide but nowhere to run.
Come out, come out, wherever you are.’

Loved this one. Suspenseful and unique! I’m already looking forward to reading more from Kiersten White based on this book.

The Toll by Cherie Priest.

‘Titus and Melanie Bell are on their honeymoon and have reservations in the Okefenokee Swamp cabins for a canoeing trip. But shortly before they reach their destination, the road narrows into a rickety bridge with old stone pilings, with room for only one car.

Much later, Titus wakes up lying in the middle of the road, no bridge in sight. Melanie is missing. When he calls the police, they tell him there is no such bridge on Route 177…’

Okay, how great does that sound?! LOVE the idea a bridge or area you’ve been to not actually existing. That’s just really unsettling to me. This book was fantastic. I truly enjoyed it. Very atmospheric! You meet a lot of characters but they’re all quite memorable so unlike some books with lots of characters, I had no problem keeping them all straight!

Interestingly enough, a lot of reviews of this book call it out as being one of the author’s weakest books so I am very curious to check out her others if this one was “bad”.

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what I’ve been reading

by Kaylah Stroup August 28, 2023
a house with good bones by t. kingfisher

A House With Good Bones by T. Kingfisher.

‘”Mom seems off.”

Her brother’s words echo in Sam Montgomery’s ear as she turns onto the quiet North Carolina street where their mother lives alone.

She brushes the thought away as she climbs the front steps. Sam’s excited for this rare extended visit, and looking forward to nights with just the two of them, drinking boxed wine, watching murder mystery shows, and guessing who the killer is long before the characters figure it out.

But stepping inside, she quickly realizes home isn’t what it used to be. Gone is the warm, cluttered charm her mom is known for; now the walls are painted a sterile white. Her mom jumps at the smallest noises and looks over her shoulder even when she’s the only person in the room. And when Sam steps out back to clear her head, she finds a jar of teeth hidden beneath the magazine-worthy rose bushes, and vultures are circling the garden from above.

To find out what’s got her mom so frightened in her own home, Sam will go digging for the truth. But some secrets are better left buried.’

I’ve read a couple of books by T. Kingfisher at this point and I think one of the things I love the most about her writing is the world building. I find it so easy to visualize every one and every place in her books and I think that’s just wonderful. A House With Good Bones is a solid horror book that I’d feel comfortable recommending to just about anyone who’d listen!*

Also by T. Kingfisher I really enjoyed The Twisted Ones! I made my husband read it after I did. We both loved it. Since reading it I’ve been on the hunt for similar books and still haven’t found anything that scratched the itch.

*That sounds weird and robotic, right? But what I mean is that I read a lot of really icky, uncomfortable, just plain old triggering horror that I feel like pushes limits. This book feels like something that could be enjoyed by everyone, even folks who don’t necessarily love horror.

Abnormal Statistics by Max Booth III.

Abnormal Statistics is a collection of thirteen stories by author Max Booth III, ten of which are reprints, and three are original to this book including a novella called “Indiana Death Song”. First things first, I had never read anything by Max Booth III prior to this but you guys… a tweet of his showed up on my twitter where if you Paypal-ed him money, he’d send you a signed book. That’s how easy it is to hook me. I’d seen his name floating around before in the horror world so I figured why not.

This book was awful. The good kind of awful! The kind of awful you’re reading horror for! Just absolutely unflinching, uncomfortable horror. This is the kind of horror I’m talking about above, it’s not for everyone but for the people who like that stuff? THIS IS A GOOD ONE!

The first 84 pages start with the aforementioned novella which immediately made me a fan of his writing. It was bleak and heartbreaking. (Even more so when you read the story notes in the back of the book and learn it was based heavily on his own childhood. What!!!)

I tore through this book and hopped online as soon as I was done to order another of his books. I look forward to reading everything I can get my hands on now. I highly recommend this book!

OOZE: Little Bursts of Body Horror edited by Ruth Anna Evans.

This was another twitter find. I honestly just really loved the look of the book. It’s so cute and tiny and pink! Don’t let that fool you though. It is disgusting!

Ooze: Little Bursts of Body Horror is a collection of bite sized stories that plunge you into a world where the boundaries of the human body are stretched and distorted in the most grotesque and imaginative ways. It’s a quick read. I couldn’t put it down and ended up finishing it in one sitting.

We Need to Do Something by Max Booth III.

‘A family on the verge of self-destruction finds themselves isolated in their bathroom during a tornado warning.’

I wasn’t really sure what to gather from that very small snippet but after reading Abnormal Statistics I knew I could trust the author to take me on a wild ride. We Need to Do Something is slow-burning and anxiety-inducing.

This book was turned into a movie with the same name in 2021. It has… uh, not the best reviews but, I’ll tell you what, I watched it right after I finished the book and really enjoyed it. I felt like the casting was pretty spot on with what I was imagining too!

I always like when I can watch the movie version right after finishing a book, especially when it’s something like this that I’m still mulling over in my brain.

Just Like Mother by Anne Heltzel.

‘The last time Maeve saw her cousin was the night she escaped the cult they were raised in. For the past two decades, Maeve has worked hard to build a normal life in New York City, where she keeps everything―and everyone―at a safe distance.

When Andrea suddenly reappears, Maeve regains the only true friend she’s ever had. Soon she’s spending more time at Andrea’s remote Catskills estate than in her own cramped apartment. Maeve doesn’t even mind that her cousin’s wealthy work friends clearly disapprove of her single lifestyle. After all, Andrea has made her fortune in the fertility industry―baby fever comes with the territory.

The more Maeve immerses herself in Andrea’s world, the more disconnected she feels from her life back in the city; and the cousins’ increasing attachment triggers memories Maeve has fought hard to bury. But confronting the terrors of her childhood may be the only way for Maeve to transcend the nightmare still to come…’

When I finished this book and was thinking about what to write about it here the first word that came to mind was ‘predictable’. I know that sounds bad but hear me out, okay? It’s predictable in the way you can absolutely see what’s coming a mile away and there’s nothing you can do to stop any of the events that are about to happen. You just have to buckle up and hold on tight. It was so fantastically stressful. I loved it!

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my food garden / before + after

by Kaylah Stroup August 9, 2023

When we bought our home the yard wasn’t the prettiest. We were absolutely stoked about the land and actually owning property but in the state it was in, it wasn’t much to look at. Adding my massive flower bed made a huge improvement! We also added trails throughout the woods off the main grassy area and most recently, I’ve been working on converting overgrown weed filled areas to something more useful.

Last spring I started the process of clearing out the area beside my garage. Seen below. It was full of weeds that grew taller than my head. Mixed in with that? Trash. Bunches of it. Not even fun old trash, just like… real modern trash. I wish I had gotten more pictures of it before but honestly, it was just an eye sore. It was an area I purposely kept out of frame.

I spent spring of 2022 clearing out the trash, carefully mowing, and ripping out all everything growing. I ended up planting my pumpkins there last year which really worked out because pumpkins are great at taking over. They kept other plants under control while I figured out exactly what I wanted to do with the area.

Check out my pumpkin tunnel from last year here. It was such a massive source of joy!

This year I started with a plan!

I wanted this area to be more food garden focused as opposed to for funsies flowers. I got three 17″ raised beds from Vego Garden. I have two of the 6 in 1 beds and one 9 in 1 bed.

The beds were easy to put together and I was able to fill them quite affordably by using rotting logs, yard waste, cardboard and homemade compost. I LOVE how they look!

My vision was that the two smaller beds would have an arch in between them and that you’d walk through that arch to get to the larger bed. I used 16ft cattle panel from Tractor Supply to make the arch. Luckily my dad has a truck or else it’d have been a real pain in the butt to figure out how to get the panel home since they don’t deliver.

early in the season, May

I planted tomatoes, marigolds, nasturtium, peppers, onions, and peas!

I’ve felt kind meh about it season long though. Honestly, I’m not having the best gardening year. Everything just seemed to be off to a really slow start and SLUGS. My goodness, slugs! I have never had a problem with them before but they won’t leave my stuff alone no matter how many darn egg shells I crush up around my plants. It’s one of those things I’ve just had to kind of ignore so that it doesn’t drive me mad.

BUT! Earlier this week, I walked outside early in the morning and was able to look at everything with fresh eyes. Things finally seem to be taking off. My tomato plants don’t look very pretty but they’re heavy with fruit just beginning to ripen. My peas are finally climbing the arch! I have baby peppers growing slowly but steadily.

I worked my butt off on this area and it’s definitely paying off. Maybe not as quickly as I’d like but wow, what a huge difference from the before photos I shared above.

vego garden beds
vego garden beds review
vego garden beds arch

Doesn’t it look so lovely? I’m quite pleased with my decision to plant clover in between the beds instead of doing mulch or bark. My mower doesn’t fit but it just takes a second to weed whack! I think having the green in there makes such a big impact and kind of extends the yard.

pumpkin tunnel

Also, this year’s pumpkin tunnel? I’M VERY EXCITED! You can definitely expect to see a lot more of that later in the summer! xo

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2023 bouquets // pt. 2

by Kaylah Stroup July 31, 2023

orange juice vase

Part two of my little ‘photograph every single bouquet I make this year’ project! Quite fun to see them go from almost exclusively yellow/white to exploding with color. This project is only just getting started and I already feel a huge amount of satisfaction. There is truly nothing like growing your own flowers.

See part one of the bouquet project here.

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in the garden // july 2023

by Kaylah Stroup July 26, 2023

It’s the third summer in the flower garden of my dreams!

There are so many plants blooming right now. It’s an absolute treat to wander around inside. Every day it seems like something new is exploding with color.

It’s been too hot most recent days to do much of anything out there which works out just fine for me since it’s mostly on autopilot during the summer. The goal has always been that there are enough plants that there just isn’t room for weeds. While I’m not quite there yet, this year’s garden is worlds different than my first-year garden (which I HATED during the summer because it just felt unmanageable!)

This year my flower bed is an absolute delight.

I just wanted to share some recent flower bed pictures. That’s all. xo

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Check out this post from June of 2021 to see little peek at how far it’s come!

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dump digging!

by Kaylah Stroup July 24, 2023

Last week my dad text me this…

Although I feel like we’ve already got pretty much anything cool out of the dump, of course the answer is yes! I grabbed my stuff and headed over to play in the trash!

Check out our previous dump-digging experiences here.

We started the short hike to the property the dump is on but after wandering around a little while came up short. The woods seemed… different? Maybe I’ve been reading too much horror but it was like we were transported to somewhere else. There was no sign of the dump. If you look at my other dump digging posts you can see the rows of bottles and other treasures we left on logs. I know it’s been a few years but it seems highly unlikely that someone actually cleaned it up.

So, we walked and walked and walked until I spotted something off in the distance. I darted over to check it out and wouldn’t you know it, we discovered a whole new dump! Totally untouched by anyone in YEARS!

Presumably a farm dump used from the 1950’s-70s. There was a little bit of everything. Boots, toys, pots and pans, miscellaneous car parts, and my favorite – bottles! So many unbroken bottles. Such a treat!

The photos in this post are of the treasures I bought home. I like collecting random bottles for making bouquets and giving them away to loved ones. Clearly, I also can’t resist a tiny bottle. What will I do with them? Who knows but they’re cute!

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