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National Cat Day 2018

by Kaylah Stroup October 29, 2018

If you’ve been on social media today at all, I’m sure you’ve seen that it’s National Cat Day! I can’t think of a more appropriate way to celebrate than to share a few of my favorite recent photos of Professor. This little rascal brings a smile to my face approximately forty thousand times a day. He has such a huge personality jampacked inside that tiny frame. I hope he can brighten your day a little bit as well.

Two things before I end this post –
▴ Professor has his own instagram account which you should absolutely follow!
▴ National Cat Day was started in 2005 as a way to bring awareness to the number of homeless cats. Lots of shelters offer discounts or specials today in celebration, might be a good day to finally adopt that fuzzy friend you’ve been thinking about!

Professor’s bow tie is by Carvas. Can’t recommend them highly enough! He wears his every single day, it’s not just for photos. Since discovering how dang cute he looks in them, I don’t think he’ll ever not wear one again. 

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Friday Favorites #488

by Kaylah Stroup October 26, 2018
This post contains affiliate links. Check out our disclosure policy for more details.

Look at this cardigan! SO stinken cute!

(via Modcloth)

Lovin’ this sweatshirt.

(via Madewell)

Obsessed with the packaging on these socks! Doughnuts/Sushi

(via Modcloth)

Look at these bag clips!

(via Perpetual Kid)

If you’ve been crushing on my DIY dog crate grid wall but didn’t have a random crate laying around – look what I found! There are even little shelves you can add!

(via Amazon)

Nobody!

(via Hello Dodo)

BIRD LEG LAMP!!! To match the bird leg side table!

(via Urban Outfitters)

Digging this polka dot skirt. Perfect color for fall.

(via Modcloth)

This jewelry box lid holds your earrings! How rad is that!?

(via Urban Outfitters)

How cute are these earrings?!

(via Moorea Seal)

I tried on this coat the other day, liked it but ultimately decided that I probably wouldn’t wear it very often. Guess what I can’t stop thinking about now…

(via Old Navy)

Link love…

  • What’s up buttercup?
  • Cold feet? These are amazing. Paired with leggings and a hoodie is my fall/winter evening uniform.
  • It’s a little hard to picture but I think this sheer star dress would look perfect with just a black slip underneath!
  • Beetle tea infuser!!
  • This starry velvet dress is oh so cute!
  • Shorter folks – hi, you need to wear this polka dot dress! Gonna guess it wouldn’t be appropriate on me in public but the review photos make it look so so so cute.
  • Allie posted a guide to Salem you might want to check out if you’re heading there soon!
  • Love face masks? Have you heard of FaceTory yet!? It’s a face mask subscription box. It’s affordable and has great reviews!!
  • ONE MONTH left until my husband’s book is released!!!! I am so excited!!!

Happy Friday!
xoxo

PS. I have a ton more rad finds here! 

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tips for keeping your hair healthy, shiny & strong

by Kaylah Stroup October 24, 2018

Over the last eight or so years I’ve written many posts about hair. Most of which concentrate on dyeing your hair and maintaining that color. I’ve got a list of must-read hair posts down at the bottom of this one! Now that my hair is finally past shoulder length I feel like I putting more effort into keeping it healthy is essential. Here are a few of my favorite tips for keeping my locks shiny and strong…

▴ Wash your hair less. This is really hard for some folks, I totally get it. I used to wash my hair every single day. I love freshly washed hair but shampoos strip your hair of important natural oils. It took a while but I finally found a dry shampoo I loved and figured out how to use it correctly. I am now a member of the every other day hair washing club and my hair has never looked better. My color is lasting SO much longer.

▴ When you do wash your hair, use shampoo only from root to mid shaft. No sense in stripping your ends from the oils they so desperately need, especially since they’re the most prone to drying out.

▴ Use a special hair towel. A towel made specifically for your hair is a game changer. Not only will it get more water out helping your hair dry quicker, but it’ll also be much more gentle on your locks!

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▴ Hair masks! Every few weeks I mix a bit of dye with my favorite hair mask and let it sit for a half hour or so. It’s a nice touch up of color with all the benefits your mask of choice adds. My reigning favorite is the Eva NYC therapy sessions hair mask. It smells wonderful and leaves my hair moisturized, shiny and looking downright beautiful!

Even if you’re not adding dye, masks are great for helping your hair look it’s best. Nothing will save super damaged hair but a good mask certainly make your locks look better.

▴ Heat protectant is essential if you’re using styling tools. The key here is to make sure you’re applying it to all of your hair, not just the top layer. I’m currently using CHI Iron Guard Thermal Protection Spray. Not only does it protect my hair from heat, but it also helps seems to help my curls hold better.

▴ Speaking of hair products, Hask Placenta is amazing. I could write a whole post about how much of a wonder product this stuff is. It’s the only thing I’ve been consistently using since I started dyeing my hair. My number one must-have hair product! I spritz it on my damp hair before brushing. I let it sit a few minutes then comb through. It makes my hair so much more manageable. Hask Placenta isn’t sold as a ‘detangler’ but it’s certainly proven to be for my hair. I seem to always forget it when we go on vacations and I can definitely tell a difference on days I don’t use it.

▴ Satin Pillowcase! Gentle on your hair, cooler to the touch than a regular pillowcase and good for bedhead. Switching to a satin pillowcase meant no longer waking up with bangs sticking straight out in the morning.

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What are some of your most trusted hair tips?
xoxo

More hair related reads;

▴ My five must-have hair products ▴ 7 tips for maintaining bright hair color ▴ Two tips for switching hair colors easily ▴ Bleaching your hair 101 ▴ How to clean up hair dye messes ▴ Nine truths about having dyed hair

YOU CAN FIND MORE HAIR DYE TIPS AND GUIDES IN MY HAIR MASTER POST.
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Friday Favorites #487

by Kaylah Stroup October 19, 2018
This post contains affiliate links. Check out our disclosure policy for more details.

This moon lamp! Oh my! (Available for a bit cheaper here!)

(via Urban Outfitters)

Bat cat!

(via Modcloth)

This dress! Yes, please! Under $30 and available on Prime so it’ll be to you in no time!

(via Amazon)

Diggin this pin big time.

(via Gnat and Rat)

This pin! Also comes in red!

(via Serious About)

A little something to shock your house guests.

(via Creature Cups)

Black velour overalls! So perfect for fall! They’d look excellent paired with this striped turtleneck.

(via Amazon)

Ain’t that the truth! Also available in patch form!

(via Ahoy Kollektiv)

I dig these tapestries!

(left, right)

This spiderweb rug is so cute ( & 100% acceptable all year round!)

(via Sourpuss)

These shirts are ridiculous and amazing!

(swan / cat)

Link love…

  • This collection of pet costumes is pretty fantastic. Definitely worth a peek if you need a smile. My favorite is the ram.
  • I am positively obsessed with this sweet little pumpkin. I’m trying so hard to curate a very specific set of holiday decor pieces. Ya know, things I truly enjoy seeing each season. I feel like that guy fits the bill.
  • They no longer carry the print I have but this blanket is seriously perfect. It’s warm, super soft + big enough for Jeff & I to cuddle under on the couch. According to the review I left, looks like I’ve had it for about a year. Still very very happy!
  • Yeah, I’m here showing off another striped shirt. Are you even surprised? But at least this one is unique!
  • I’ve been eyeing up this bat costume. Not for Halloween but like for every day wear around the house…
  • Does your kitty need a propellor hat? Yeah, I thought so too!

Happy Friday!
xoxo

PS. I have a ton more rad finds here! This week I spent a bunch of time updating the Halloween list! So many cute odds + ends. Here’s a small preview…

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three favorite Cleveland cemeteries

by Kaylah Stroup October 16, 2018

The Haserot Angel, Lake View Cemetery, Cleveland cemetery

I really love Cleveland. I think we’re a totally underrated city, and I want to do my best to help spread the word that this should be a place you visit at least once. Last month I shared some of my favorite spots in Cleveland, and before that, I spilled the beans on my favorite beachcombing spots in the city. Now, I’m back to talk about my favorite cemeteries.

One of the very first things I do after choosing a location to take a trip to is search for their best cemeteries. I wanna check out all the coolest headstones, and wander the oldest graveyards. Trouble is, without putting in a ton of research, it’s not that easy. Unless a city has a wildly popular memorial or is known for their cemeteries (hey there, Salem!) most people don’t necessarily go around posting lots of photos or information.

Buuut this is The Dainty Squid, and it’s October so here we go!

▴ Lake View Cemetery

12316 Euclid Ave, Cleveland, OH

Cleveland’s most popular cemetery! The kind of place that even if visiting cemeteries in each city you visit isn’t something you regularly do, you might come here. 285 beautiful acres, many famous interments including a former president, tons of beautiful headstones, and even a few geocaches. It’s a wonderful place to spend an afternoon – although it would take you a whole heck of a lot longer if you wanted to see everything. Every single time I go I find something new!

Must see memorial – The Haserot Angel, of course! A bronze sculpture of the ‘Angel of Death Victorious’ who appears to be weeping black tears. Lake View is pretty large and he’s easy to miss but the good news is you can simply use your GPS. The ‘maps’ app has The Haserot Angel listed as a landmark. Using the directions will only get you to the cemetery, not the memorial. Once inside you can use the location pinned as The Haserot Angel and yours to work your way closer.

Another favorite of mine is the weeping woman a few photos below. She’s life-sized and honestly, one of the most haunting statues I have ever seen. I am not superstitious nor do I think cemeteries are creepy but I’ll tell you what, I don’t like turning my back on her. My photo doesn’t do her extremely detailed and realistic face justice.

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▴ Monroe Street Cemetery

3200 Monroe Ave Cleveland, Ohio

Monroe Street Cemetery is a historic cemetery on the West side of Cleveland, until the late 1890’s it was actually the only public cemetery on the West side. It is said that burials began in 1818 but the earliest headstone that can be found is 1827. There are currently over 31k people buried on the 13.63 acres, over 500 of which were soldiers. During the civil war, soldiers who died at Army camps near Cleveland were often buried here. There are also two mayors, as well as many notable folks who helped build Cleveland and Ohio City buried here. My favorite fun fact about the cemetery though? It was fenced during the 19th century to keep out wandering hogs.

Must see memorial – This isn’t one specific memorial but since the moment I spotted them I’ve been enamored with the headstones that line the fence closest to the junkyard. When you enter the cemetery they’ll be to your far right approximately half way down the fence. They’re old and often, the greenery around them keeps them mostly hidden. The rest of the cemetery feels so open and inviting but this line of headstones feels so tucked away and secretive.

Monroe St. Cemetery, fall cemetery

▴ Riverside Cemetery

3607 Pearl Rd, Cleveland, OH

Riverside Cemetery is 102.5 hilly, green, tree-covered acres. Riverside was the first major-sized, non-sectarian, garden-type Cemetery established west of the Cuyahoga River. The cemetery is just over 140 years old and offers a wide variety of memorials. Just like Lake View, on each visit I find something new and interesting.

Must see memorial – One of my favorite headstones in Riverside is Thomas Baran’s. It’s an interesting collage of seemingly random items. Easily one of the most unique headstones I have ever seen! Multiple portraits of Jesus, book covers, telescopes, planets, and so much more can be found on the headstone. I have a few more photos of it located in this post. If you’re entering the cemetery off of Pearl Road, stay to your left and about 3/4 of the way to the back of the cemetery, it’ll be on your right side.

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Two notable mentions –

▴ Erie Street Cemetery is the city’s oldest existing cemetery. It’s fairly small but definitely worth a peek if you’re out wandering around the city. Although they aren’t all marked, there are nearly 18,000 interments!

▴ Not in Cleveland but worth a stop if you’re traveling through or up for an afternoon drive, Willoughby Village Cemetery is home to ‘the girl in blue’. One of my absolute favorite headstones. Read more about her here.

I’d love to hear about your favorite cemeteries in your city!
xoxo

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Hug Point

by Kaylah Stroup October 15, 2018

Throwing it back to our honeymoon today…

I thought visiting Cannon Beach was a guarantee I’d see some sea stars and other interesting intertidal creatures. No such luck. When we got back to the hotel for the evening, Jeff and I set off to work figuring out what we’d do the next morning. Hitting up the beach again was definitely my priority. I was determined to see at least one dang sea star. I just wasn’t sure if we should head back to Cannon Beach and time our visit around tide times better or find some place new. In true ~us~ fashion, we decided that since our time was limited and the coast was just so magical we should check out somewhere new.

I started to tell Jeff about this spot I had found photos of when he said “…I think we’re looking at the same place!” That sealed the deal, I checked tide times, and the next morning we headed off to Hug Point. The internet promised waterfalls, caves, and access to tidepools. I could not wait!

oregon coast beach, hug point, pnw

We pulled in to an empty parking lot an hour and a half before low tide. The view as we walked down the stairs to the beach assured me we had picked the right spot. Almost immediately I spotted my second banana slug ever. I was over the moon! It didn’t matter what else I found or saw on the beach, I was pleased!

I couldn’t believe we had the whole place to ourselves. It didn’t seem real. In the morning light, Hug Point looks like a movie set. It was nothing short of magical. We wandered the beach, back and forth, waiting for the tide to go completely out. More creatures revealed themselves as each minute passed. It’s truly amazing how quickly the water drops (and in turn, how quickly it comes back in!)

We spotted many colorful sea anemones, interesting little fish, and exactly what I came to the coast looking for – sea stars! I was surprised how hard they were to see. In photos, it’s so obvious where they are but in person, they’re much better camouflaged. I concentrated on one specific rock that I felt was promising. On a part of the rock a bit further away, in water too deep to walk into, I could see a red sea star so I knew there had to be more. I finally spotted a purple one I could walk out to (with caution because the waves were too deep to squat in but when the water washed out I could bend down real quick to snap a photo.) After visiting the same one three or four times throughout the course of our visit I spotted two more that I had just walked right by. I was THRILLED!

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I still can’t believe Hug Point is real. It’s so close to Cannon Beach (just five miles south!) and in my humble opinion, a thousand times better. So why is it not overrun with people as well? It’s certainly strange but I’m very happy we were able to have that experience. We had the whole place to ourselves, aside from one guy with a dog, for over two hours. It was perfect. Easily my favorite beach experience, ever.

If you’re visiting the Oregon coast, Hug Point is a must!
xoxo

For more on our PNW trip, including hotel + food recommendations – check out this post. 

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Friday Favorites #486

by Kaylah Stroup October 12, 2018
This post contains affiliate links. Check out our disclosure policy for more details.

This patch!

(via Eradura)

Kitty undies! Ohhh Lulu also has the pattern in different cuts if you prefer another style.

(via Ohhh Lulu)

It’s officially cozy sweater weather and I am EXCITED.

(via Amazon)

This toasty looking coat is adorable! Love the little specks of color.

(via Modcloth)

I am wildly in love with Amy Earles’ work! How precious is this print?!

(via Wool & Water)

I’ve got a major crush on those leaves! (You can buy online + it’s not expensive!)

(via Amazon)

This candle sounds amazing.

(via AtoZ Candles)

A little update here; I featured this adorable scalloped dress in my Friday Favorites a few weeks ago…

It is SO cute in person and is perfect paired with black knee-high socks!

Digging this pin!

(via Pam Wishbow)

A sweater with cat elbow patches! YESSS! They clearly don’t quite sit on your elbows but still very cute.

(via Amazon)

I’m obsessed with this dress. The print, the color and the cut!? It’s basically perfect.

(via Modcloth)

Aren’t these moth rings lovely!?

(via Nancy Edwards Jewelry)

Link love…

  • Another day, another pair of pink Palladium Boots I’m lovin! I even wore some on my wedding day!
  • This fringe wrap looks perfect for fall!
  • This bodysuit would be perfect paired with some overalls! (Also, that pair of overalls? SO CUTE!)
  • Like coffee & dead things? Here’s the enamel pin for you.
  • These black undies. HELLO.
  • Tooth shaped lollipops!!!
  • It’s pajama season!!! I mean, like, you can actually be cozy in a pair of fuzzy pjs without roasting. I’m LOVING these skeleton jammies! Especially love that they have hood. I love sleeping with a hood in the winter.
  • People I want to meet: dogs.
  • I want these socks for every time I’m in public alone and a dude tries to talk to me.

Happy Friday!
xoxo

PS. I have a ton more rad finds here! 

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life lately

by Kaylah Stroup October 11, 2018

WATCHING

It’s October so you’re dang right we’ve been watching horror movies. We watched The Witch which I enjoyed, a lot. It was very haunting. The movie started a little slow, in my opinion, but the last half hour was pretty action packed.

We also watched The Endless which I really really enjoyed. I hate when people compare movies because I feel as if it’s misleading, like you’re going to go into expecting the same thing BUT The Endless reminds me of a mix between Wristcutters and Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children. It’s not really like either of those two things but had some similarities that made it way cool to me. I actually wouldn’t mind watching it again. It’s currently on Netflix but here’s a trailer for ya!

Last night’s movie was The Ritual (also on Netflix). Not really what I expected but it certainly got a few good jumps from me. I also had to tuck my feet up under the blanket so nothing could grab my feet. Hah! A solid movie choice if you’re making it a point to watch spooky stuff this month like we are.

Loving Adam Ruins Everything right now. The commercials for it were kind of annoying when it was on television but when I actually gave it chance I tore through all that was on Netflix in just a few days. Wildly informative and exactly the kind of stuff I’m interested in learning. I kind of feel bad for thinking the commercials were annoying now. Maybe they were just on a lot?

On a similar note, Hot Date is hilarious and amazing. I also finished that in no time flat. I’m just really into Emily Axford right now, okay? She’s very funny.

PLAYING

I’ve been playing Snake Pass on the Xbox One. It appeals to me because it’s bright, colorful and has levels that are fairly quick to beat (meaning I don’t have to dedicate a ton of time in one sitting to playing) Games like this are definitely more my style than the majority of games that popular for Xbox.

Jeff has been playing Layers of Fear. Okay, he only played once but for quite a bit of time. When he went to play again the game had apparently not saved and I’ve been trying to get him to start over again for like two weeks. I grew up with two big brothers so I actually enjoy watching people play video games. This game was a little dark (literally, not like scary dark) for me to play but watching him play was a blast. It’s so much different than all the other games I know. Theres lots to discover and explore. Fingers crossed I can convince him to give it another go!

Check out this post for more Xbox talk.

ENJOYING

▴ Cuddly Squid! We’ve begun to notice a pattern when the cool weather comes around each year, Squid turns into a major cuddle bug. During the summer, I’m honestly not really sure where she sleeps but as soon as it starts to cool off she’ll join us in bed in the evenings for movie time and end up staying in the same spot until morning. Any time I sit down, she’s near me trying to find the best spot to curl up. It’s the best.
▴ Evening walks with friends around the neighborhood. Can fall just last forever?
▴ Doodling on my iPad. Back in August, Jeff got me an iPad for my birthday. Still kind of peeing my pants with excitement over that! I downloaded the (free!) app Sketchbook and have basically just been doodling ever since. It’s very relaxing. I’m enjoying having a creative outlet that is 100% just for fun. Also fun? Drawing really really awful portraits of my friends and family. Maybe someday after drawing one thousand bad portraits I’ll be decent at drawing people but for now, drawing comically bad ones is fine by me. I’ve laughed myself to tears more than once.
▴ Cooking + baking. Who am I? It’s not that I ever hated either of those things but recently they’ve become super common for me to actually do and it feels great! Right now my current favorite thing I’ve made is probably the easiest and least fancy – cinnamon no bake cookies. SO GOOD!
▴ The beach, even more so than normal. I posted about it already earlier in the week but I’m just feeling very thankful for Lake Erie recently. Sitting by the water and listening to the waves come in is so relaxing.

What’s new with you? Any movie recommendations? New hobbies you’re loving? I wanna hear about them.
xoxo

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it’s the little things…

by Kaylah Stroup October 9, 2018

like spending time doing the things that make you happy.

This post? It’s really just an excuse to share some photos from recent beachcombing trips. My love of the beach has a natural ebb and flow dependant on not only the season (cooler weather is always better!) but based on what I’m finding. Obviously, there’s no rhyme or reason to what you find on the beach on what day. It’s all random and no one can control what the lake decides to wash in. But one good day of finds will lead to me being there a lot more often the following days.

That’s what happened here. I spent the afternoon at the beach with my husband and sister-in-law over the weekend. She’d never been beachcombing before so Jeff and I were both very excited to share with her how fun and relaxing it is. I did not expect to hit the jackpot like we did though. Aside from lots of great blues, a couple red and yellows, and other awesome odds and ends, we found marbles! I’ve never seen a marble on this beach so when she raised something green in the air and said “what’s this?” I never expected that’s what it would be. I was super jealous but very excited for her and very excited to know that it was something I could possibly find some day.

Ten minutes later, I’m squatting down to grab a piece of beach glass that caught my eye when I watched a marble get washed in with the waves. It was SO incredibly exciting. I spend the next couple days going to the beach each day. Not specifically to look for marbles, although I certainly wouldn’t be upset if I found another, but because it reminded me how much I enjoy being there. Consider me 100% addicted to the beach at the moment.

I realize it’s just trash. Trash that the lake has tumbled and washed back onshore but there is just something so darn satisfying about it all. I love spending even the smallest portion of my day beside the water, listening to the waves, and searching for treasure. It’s so relaxing. It’s easy to just stay in, lay on the couch, scroll on my phone, and call that relaxing but actually getting out and doing something I love really does wonders for my mental health.

Lake Erie, I love you!

rainbow beach glass, lake erie beach marble from lake erie

Life is busy and can be stressful but don’t forget to take some time for yourself!
xoxo

For more of life’s wonderful small moments, check out the tag “it’s the little things”
If you’d like to find some beach glass of your own – 7 tips for finding beach glass & 3 best spots for beachcombing in Cleveland.
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