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a few of my favorite posts from 2015 : part one

by Kaylah Stroup December 30, 2015
At the end of every year I go a little recap post crazy. Earlier in the week I shared my favorite outfits from the past twelve months, and I have a few more “favorite” posts queued up for these last few days of 2015. I really just love going back through the year’s posts. It makes me appreciate my blog so much more. It’s amazing how much I would have otherwise forgotten. Below are a few of my favorite posts from 2015, these are the more informative posts, as opposed to personal or daily life posts. (That list will be up later this week!)
 

 propagating succulents 101

two tips for switching hair colors easily
 
 my Cleveland favorites
 
 skull cleaning 101

 blogging – a real job
 
the story of The Dainty Squid part one + part two
 
5 tips for building your blog’s readership

15 ways to fight the winter blues
 
hair master post 
 
list making for productivity
 
 my 6 favorite bath products
 
my camera equipment
Favorite posts from 2012.
Favorite posts from 2013 – part one + part two.
Favorite posts from 2014.
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15 ways to fight the winter blues

by Kaylah Stroup December 22, 2015

Today is the first day of winter which means it’s that time of the year when the sun is late to rise and disappears again all too early. I get the winter blues baaaad. I don’t mind cooler weather, and most of the time I enjoy the snow but the lack of sunlight really gets to me. Already I’m seeing a slight shift it my overall mood. Before it gets too late in the season, and I’m completely stuck in a rut I thought it might be helpful to compile a list of ways to combat the winter blues.

15 Ways To Fight The Winter Blues.
▴ Buy some plants. Indoor gardening is super satisfying, and bringing the outdoors inside is a great way to boost your mood. There’s always room for one more cactus, I promise! 😉

▴ Light your house up! Burning candles always feel so cozy to me, and I swear I love my living room 100x more after hanging Christmas lights from my ceiling. They’re definitely staying up all year long.

▴ Wake up as early as possible. The cold weather makes me want to sleep in. My bed is just so cozy, especially when Jeff sleeps over but when it comes right down to it I feel so much better getting up early. Since the sun is so limited this time of the year soaking it up every second you get is way better than staying curled up in bed.

▴ Embrace the season! Ice skating is a blast, and what could be more fun than sledding with friends? Last year we talked about making a snow fort but it never happened. Maybe this will be the year!?

▴ Catch up on reading. I recommend Miss Peregrine’s Peculiar Children series by Ransom Riggs. I’m currently dragging my feet through the third book. I just don’t want it to end!

▴ Visit the beach! The beach in the winter can be pretty amazing – see here + here. Make sure to bundle up though, being near the water is always drastically colder.

▴ Visit your local greenhouse or botanical garden. If you’re near Cleveland, you need to go Rockefeller Park Greenhouse! 

▴ Clean. Am I the only one who thinks cleaning is really relaxing?
Yes? Well, it’s a great way to de-stress. Take the time to clean out
your closets, and donate anything you no longer need or use.

▴ Explore your neighborhood. Bundle up, and take a walk. I did this right after moving to my new apartment (see here) and it’s still one of my favorite walks I’ve ever taken.

▴ Take a bubble bath. You can find a list of my favorite bath products here.

▴ Bake something! The smell of something cooking will make your home feel super cozy, and you’ll have something to snack on. It’s a win/win.  Nutella swirled banana bread is always great. It’s not baking but this brandy fudge is certainly delicious.

▴ Throw a party. It’s an excuse to decorate, have friends over, and eat – what could be better?! May I suggest a breakfast for dinner party?

▴ Write letters or postcards to your friends. Snail mail is the best ,and it will brighten someone else’s day as well!

▴ Try night photography! Use the fact it gets dark insanely early to your advantage, you get to practice a new hobby and still be in bed by 9pm.

▴ Buy yourself some flowers! So maybe you’re not the indoor gardening type, but flowers are always nice. If you’re allergic, there are still paper flowers!

What are some of your favorite ways to fight the winter blues?
xoxo

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my plug collection

by Kaylah Stroup December 21, 2015
plugs

I’m a collector, plain and simple. There are things I specifically hunt down, like globes, because I enjoy the way they look displayed together. There are other things that I never mean to collect but I somehow end up with a bunch of. Basically, I tend to amass collections of things whether I try or not. It’s just in my nature. Way back in 2011 I started the tag “collections” on the blog so I could share photos and a little bit about all the things I collect. I haven’t really shared much these last few years aside from my lapel pin collection and photos of my curiosities after each move but I’d like to get back at it.

Something I didn’t purchase to collect per se are plugs. I started stretching my ears many moons ago. I’m actually a year or two off from having them half of my life. I have distinct memory of sitting in history class in high school telling all my friends “Oh yeah, 0g is my goal size. I’m definitely going to stop after that!” Hah! Around four years ago I landed at 1.5″ (38mm), a size that I was comfortable staying at, and since then have been building a pretty awesome collection of pretty things for my ears. I mean, I have a closet full of dresses, and shoes for every occasion. Why not have lots of plugs to choose from?

plugs, stretched ears

My entire collection aside from one pair, the bees in the top right corner, are from Omerica Organic. This is 100% not a sponsored post, I just REALLY love them. I legitimately think they might hold the title for my all time favorite company. They have awesome customer service, and the quality is seriously the best. The designs always super crisp. I really liked the bee plugs which I got from Bodyartforms but comparing those against all my other ones you can see that my other plugs really shine.

Throughout the years I’ve tried lots of different materials but I always seem to come back to wood. I love the look of stone but with my ears stretched this large it’s really just too heavy for me to wear on a daily basis. Omerica Organic comes out with new plugs super frequently which I
love since it allows me to have a diverse selection to choose from despite only wearing wood. I definitely don’t need any more but how can I resist when they
come out with things that fit my style so perfectly! Teeth, insects,
skulls? Yes, please! I took the photo below to show off my favorite four
pairs but when I look at it I see three other pairs that probably could
have been labeled “my favorite” too.

plugs, tooth plugs, Omerica Organicblue hair, plugs, dinosaur plugs, girl with stretched ears
stretched ears, girl with stretched ears, plugsplug collection, plugs
green hair, stretched ear, plugs, Omerica Organic

Due to the size of my collection I don’t really have an awesome way to store them. Omerica Organic sells plug pouches which are really cute but alas, they don’t come in my size…and I would need a lot of them. So until I find something better I store them inside this turtle shell I picked up from Target a few years back (If I’m not mistaken they’re carrying a similar one this year except in silver instead of gold.) Not all of them fit inside so the others reside on a cute little tray that I also picked up from Target.

Anyone else out there with stretched ears also collect plugs? I love seeing photos of collections! 😉
xoxo

As always, if you’d like to order for the first time from Omerica Organic you can use rep code “daintysq” for 20% off!!

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my 6 favorite bath products

by Kaylah Stroup December 17, 2015

This post might seem totally random but winter is bath season for me. As soon as the weather starts to cool the bathtub suddenly becomes one of my favorite spots in the whole apartment.  Sometimes I take one first thing in the morning to wake up, other times I take one right before bed. Doesn’t matter what time of the day, nothing is more relaxing to me than sipping tea, reading a book, and soaking my stress away. It’s my favorite way to warm up if I have a chill… which is basically always. I consider myself fairly well-versed in bath products so I thought it’d be fun to share some of my favorite things that make baths even more relaxing.

bath bomb, candle

1. Village Naturals Therapy Foaming Bath Oil. This, surprisingly, is one of my favorite bath products. It contains menthol so it’s the perfect thing to clear out your sinuses (because winter means I inevitably get sick at least once!) It also comes in a bath soak. Using both the oil and the soak at the same time is heaven. The foaming bath oil is also a great multi-use product because not only can you take a bubble bath in it, it lathers really nicely if you’d like to use it as a shower gel. The smell is super energizing, and perfect for those early morning baths or showers.

2. Lush bath bombs are obviously going to be on this list. I’m pretty cheap so I totally understand not wanting to spend $6+ per bath product but they are absolutely worth the splurge. I don’t use them every single bath but they are an amazing pick my up when I’m feeling blue. If you haven’t tried Lush yet, quit stalling and go buy a sex bomb. I swear, there is nothing better!

3. A bath pillow. Do I have to explain why having a bath pillow rules? I don’t think so but I’ll tell you one thing, it’s so much cozier than laying your head on the tub or just putting a towel behind your head. It also makes it easy to keep my hair dry!

4. Overflow drain cover. Having one of these is a must if you’re over a certain height. Bathtubs that are long enough that I don’t have to decide which part of my body – feet, knees or boobs – has to be cold are few and far between. While having an overflow drain cover doesn’t completely solve the problem it gives you a few extra inches of water. Once you have one you’ll wonder
how you went without it all these years! I feel like a dork for not having mine pictured in this post but after a few years and a lot of different hair colors, it’s not very pretty. Trust me, you don’t want to see it.

5.  Candles, candles, and more candles. I am a verified candle addict. They make relaxing in the tub so much nicer. Recently I got a few from P.F. Candle Co. from Moorea Seal and holy smokes, they’re amazing! They smell wonderful, and last for quite a while. My current favorite is Gardenia & Coconut. If you’d rather purchase candles in person, I recommend hitting up TJ Maxx or Marshall’s. They always seem to have an awesome selection. I could spend forever just sniffing candles there.

6. Herbivore’s Coconut Milk Bath Soak. This stuff had been on my radar for quite sometime. I finally got my paws on it and let me just say – I was missing out! The other day Jeff came out of my bathroom and exclaimed “Wow, that coconut stuff smells amazing!” Not only does it smell great, it leaves you so so so soft.

Also, if you need a new tea for bath time… or all the time – try Bigelow’s Salted Caramel. It’s easy to accidentally over-steep but when you time it just right it tastes like candy! It’s my current favorite. I haven’t had it for all that long at all and I’ve devoured almost a full box.

Are you a fan of bubble baths? What are your favorite bath products? Any recommendations for something that produces lots of bubbles?!
xoxo

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Cleveland, from up high

by Kaylah Stroup December 16, 2015
night photography, terminal tower, Cleveland

I was about to start this post by saying I haven’t been in Cleveland all that long but it just occurred to me that it’s going on two years now! This time in 2013 I was slowly packing up my things, getting rid of anything I didn’t need to start my new life with, and browsing Craigslist for somewhere cozy for the critters and I to move. Kind of crazy it’s been that long already but on the same hand, it seems like a lifetime ago…

Anyway, ahem, the point I was going to make was that I feel like ever since the beginning of my love affair with this beautiful city I’ve been able to see it from views that probably a lot of long time residents have never seen. On mine and Jeff‘s first date he actually took me to climb a bridge. For some crazy reason, despite only having met this guy a few short hours earlier, I trusted him – I hopped a fence, and did something that at the time was probably one of the craziest things I had ever done. It was an absolute rush. I was terrified, and excited, and probably one million other emotions all rolled into one.

That was good preview of what our relationship would be like.  This adventurous human has taken me some awesome places. So many firsts, especially for this gal who previously had never really spent any time in the city at all! Last week him, Jason, and I went hunting for some new views of Cleveland…and boy, oh boy, did we find them!

We ended the night pleased, full of pizza, and I came home with a few new (really gnarly!) bruises. I bruise so easily that basically all you have to do is look at me the wrong way and I have a new one. I’m still not all that confident in my night photography skills but I’m pretty darn happy with these photos! I’m sure with time I’ll come to find flaws in them but hey, practice makes perfect!
xoxo

Here’s another fun view of the city from last summer.

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2 tips for switching hair color easily

by Kaylah Stroup December 8, 2015

One of the main questions I get about my hair is how I seamlessly change colors so drastically. This post, of course, is really only relevant to unnatural colors done with brands such as Punky Colours, Manic Panic, Special Effects and the like. I also need to give my normal spiel about not being a professional, having no formal training, and that everything I know is from personal experience. That’s not to downplay what I know though, I’ve been dyeing my hair unnatural colors for over eight years. I’ve got it pretty much down to a science.

Below is a perfect example of what my typical timeline looks like and what I’ll be explaining in this post. Blue in June, purple in July, and orange in August – easy peasy and with minimal damage! This is a fairly regular cycle for me. I change my hair color every two or three months depending how quickly I get bored.

How to switch hair colorsHow To Easily Switch Hair Colors

When my hair was professionally dyed pink for the first time around eight years ago I knew nothing about hair! I had been dyeing it black since I was around fourteen and the extent of my knowledge was how to apply box color. But since stripping the black from hair and dying it pink no one else has touched my hair color. It costs a fortune, and after a spending a great deal of time researching I realized I could easily do it myself. I’ve always loved switching colors, and in all my years the two biggest tips I’ve found that help are…

▴ Let your current hair color fade. Y’all, I take a lot of pride in my hair. I try to always keep root growth at a minimum and my hair color bright. I’m pretty embarrassed by faded hair but sometimes it is a necessity!

I let my hair fade naturally for as long as I can stand it. Then when it hits me that “I have to change hair colors now!” I give myself a few more days. In those three or fours days, hopefully longer, I will purposely fade my hair to the best of my ability. I’ve never been a fan of bleach baths, using dish soap or anything else like. To fade my hair I rinse with hot water, take baths where I actually let my hair soak instead of keeping it dry, leave shampoo in a little bit longer than normal, and do conditioning treatments at least once a day. The conditioning treatments are especially helpful because before bleaching you obviously want your hair is the best condition possible. You can find a few of my favorite deep conditioning products in this post.

The three photos above show examples of what my hair looked like at it’s best during those dye jobs, not what it looked like before being bleached and moving on to the next color. 

▴ Use the color wheel. That’s my big “secret”, which totally isn’t a secret at all but it is an important thing that is easily overlooked. I never want to say that something isn’t possible or that you can’t do something but there are definitely colors that are harder to switch between.

watercolor color wheel by Mara Mattia

While my color changes may seem dramatic they are carefully thought out. I’ve found that it’s easiest to work my way around the color wheel instead of skipping around. For example if you have bright pink hair, it’s much easier to move a few shades over on the wheel to orange, instead of rushing right into green. Is it possible to go straight from bright pink to lime green? Maybe but it’s going to involve bleaching your hair to a lot lighter of a color first. You obviously don’t have to stop at every single step on the color wheel, just keep it in mind when deciding on your next color.

Using the color wheel as a guide is what I consider my best weapon for fighting damage. My color changes are smooth and cause minimal damage because I’m not bleaching the entire length of my hair to switch colors and the color itself doesn’t cause any harm. I normally just bleach my roots and that’s all.Since I’m not bleaching the whole length there is obviously still color in my hair when moving to the next shade. Following the color wheel ensures that my next color won’t mix poorly with the color remaining in my hair. Mixing complementary colors will result in a muddy hair color which is something you want to avoid.

purple hair, hair dye

If you have other any general hair questions, or questions about my hair – let me know. I’d love to share more hair related content on The Dainty Squid but I need to know what you want to learn about. xoxo

xoxo

June 2019 update – I have a video transforming green hair to orange here! I’m still pretty impressed with how it turned out!

You can find more hair dye tips and guides in my hair master post.

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Friday Favorites #341

by Kaylah Stroup December 4, 2015
You got this.
 (via: Miss Happy Pink)
How adorable is that rug!? Gur actually has a ton of incredible handmade rugs!
 (via: Gur)
Such a great pattern on these socks!
 (via: Yu Square)
Aren’t these shoes gorgeous?
 (via: Moorea Seal)
Love these shelves, especially with those crates!
 (via: Tyler Kingston Wood Company)
Well, why shouldn’t your paperclips be cute?
 (via: bepart)
Very much into this backpack! Such lovely colors.
 (via: Modernaked)
Puppy coin purse!
 (via: ASOS)
Hey, look, more awesome shelves!
(via: Urban Outfitters)
 Love this print and this lapel pin! Clearly Beetle Ink Co is awesome.
 (via: Beetle Ink Co.)
 Ever wanted to knit your own T-Rex?!
 (via: Sincerely Louise)

Link Love…
 ▴ Love love love these starry tights!
 ▴ Just because Halloween is over doesn’t mean you couldn’t wear this amazing Halloween skirt!
 ▴ Emily shared a little list of rings she liked, and it’s clear that girl has style!
 ▴ Whatever Forever.
 ▴ I really enjoy Jordyn‘s daily life photos. Her style is inspiring, it makes me really want to shoot more photos of my friends.
 ▴ This link love section is really just a place for me to post links to lingerie I’m drooling over. Like, are you kidding me with this?! Aaaand this! If I won the lottery I would probably just go underwear crazy.

Happy Friday!xoxo

Ps. Don’t forget to browse my Everyday Favorites if you want to see more fun finds!

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Cyber Monday x Society6

by Kaylah Stroup November 30, 2015

 Just a quick post to pop in and say I updated my Society6 shop and for Cyber Monday everything is marked down! 20% off everything plus free worldwide shipping until midnight. I’ve added the photographs from the last few batches of pouches. It’s another
way to get your hands on tangible items with these photos. Beach trash, pressed plants, skulls, even some teeth!

The phone case above? I actually bought one for myself right after uploading it to the site. I am so excited to get it.

A few more things…
▴ The Society6 sale is sitewide, and there is no coupon code necessary so there’s no excuse not to support other artists as well. I obviously recommend checking out Jeff’s shop. 
▴ A great deal of the Black Friday sales I posted about at the end of last week are still live, or at the very least the stores are offering other awesome deals. For example, Modcloth is now offering 25% off everything! I actually bought this dress because the first girl in the outfit photos on the page looked so darn cute.
▴ Speaking of sales still going on, my limited edition pouches are still on sale! 25% off with code “BF25”. There aren’t many left!
▴ If you have or ever do purchase anything from my society6 shop
(or even one of my pouches!) I’d love to see photos! Feel free to email
me or tag me on instagram @thedaintysquid.
xoxo

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abandoned Rochester subway // round two

by Kaylah Stroup November 18, 2015

The weekend before last Jeff, Jake, and I hit up the abandoned Rochester subway. I guess it’s sort of an annual thing now. The Rochester subway was a light rail rapid transit line that operated from 1927 to 1956. The subway was constructed in the bed of the old Erie Canal. Most of the tracks have since been removed but it’s a really incredible tunnel nonetheless. The main part, where light flows in, is filled with colorful graffiti. It’s a really interesting spot to go visit, take photos, and poke around.

We walked the entire length again this year. It really wasn’t too much different from last year. We did manage to find a new little path to go down though which was an awesome discovery. There was an opening and a strange tunnel that kept going and kept going but I wasn’t really feeling it. It was clear someone was living there, deep underneath the city. I really don’t like the idea of invading someone’s personal space like that so if ever somewhere feels like it might be someone’s home I’m out. Not to mention the fact there were around five million cigarettes, I’m barely exaggerating here, and the smell was hard to handle. I’m so curious where the tunnel went though. I’d love to go in deeper, maybe next year…

Of course, there was new graffiti as well. I’m sure things are constantly being changed around down there. People were even painting while we there. One of my favorite things from this trip was Halloween themed graffiti! Ghosts, pumpkins, spooky creatures, and more! It was so awesome!!!

hornbill above done by Mr. Prvrt who paints some real rad stuff (+works with Wild Wings Inc, an organization that houses injured and non-releasable birds of prey in NY)

See ya again next year, Rochester!
xoxo


Find last 2014’s abandoned subway post here.

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