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project 365 : days 260 – 266

by Kaylah Stroup September 25, 2017

260 : 365 A foggy sunrise on the road I grew up on. Jeff and I left super early in the morning to drop Klaus off at my parents so we could take a quick mini trip up to Syracuse. It was foggy most of the drive there but we couldn’t resist stopping when the sky was treating us to those colors.

261 : 365 I got a new pair of glasses from Alice & Olivia. They have a handful of really unique styles. These are Ludlow in blush and in them I look like someone’s cat lady aunt whiiiich I definitely am.

262 : 365 I’ve been working with Underlined to promote their Instagram sweepstakes. Each week there is a new photo prompt and a different awesome prize you could win. The best part is the prompts are actually really fun. Last week’s was sweet treats and sweet reads so I shared a photo of no bake cookies since they’re my current favorite snack aaaand Professor decided to make my little photoshoot the cutest ever. I didn’t end up using this shot but it’s cracking me up big time. The shot I used is pretty cute too though…

263 : 365 Trash hog reflection.

264 : 365 Shelf thaaangs.

265 : 365 The cutest paper flower / stationery shop, I might be biased though…

266 : 365 Estate sale find of the weekend! I’m getting really into collecting kind of creepy things. Earlier in the summer I bought a spooky little porcelain baby doll, and now I have this photo of ghostly nuns.

Hope your week is off to a great start!
xoxo

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five reasons to start geocaching

by Kaylah Stroup September 20, 2017

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A little over a year and half ago I started geocaching. Over 350 found caches later, it’s safe to say I’m hooked. I took a tiny hiatus at the end of last year but the past two months Jeff and I have been going hard. I feel like I’m mentioning it just about every single blog post, and with good reason, it’s a blast!

For those of you not familiar, geocaching is a worldwide treasure hunt of sorts. Participants use GPS to navigate to containers that other users have hidden. A traditional geocache will be a waterproof container with a log book and sometimes trade items inside. Treasures inside aren’t usually worth much but are still fun to find. According to the official website there are over 2.8 million active geocaches, and 3 million active geocachers worldwide! The app is free to download but you’ll need a subscription to find all of the caches available. It’s $30 for the whole year which is a very small price to pay for a rad hobby.

It’s become something I’m so passionate about I thought it was high time to share some reasons why I think you should geocache as well…

geocaching, cool geocache, cache containerThe cache was easy to find but which one of the containers inside holds the log?

Fun for the whole family.

That’s probably the cheesiest way I could write that, right? It’s true though. I’ve mentioned it before and I’ll probably say it again but geocaching together is one of my favorite ways to bond with my brothers. I love piling into the car with them and then rushing out to try to be the one who finds the cache. It brings the whole family together.

I feel like it’s a great way for Jeff and I to connect as well. It’s fun to go on silly little adventures with your partner.

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My brother, my nephew + my boyfriend all looking for a cache.

Discover new places.

I’m an advocate for exploring everywhere. This doesn’t just mean somewhere across the world, it means EVERYWHERE. This perfectly describes the ethos of this hobby. Geocaching is an excellent way to be drawn to some really neat places that you may otherwise look over.

I’ve spent a lot of time around the Cleveland area beaches. I thought I was super familiar but it wasn’t until I started geocaching that I was led to this one with that amazing view of the skyline. Geocaching also led me to one of the coolest cemeteries I’ve ever visited. Chances are geocaching will lead you to places that you never even knew existed.

Exercise!

Another cheesy but true reason. I love that geocaching gets me outside. I love exercising, and I know that it makes me feel happier but that doesn’t mean I don’t need a little push to get outside. So often I’m distracted by the hunt that I don’t even realize how much walking I’m doing. Just a few weekends ago, Jeff and I hiked forty five minutes (one way!) out on a break wall in the lake to search. It was a tough little adventure that I know for certain I would have called it quits on mid-way through had I not had a purpose to get out there.

Sense of community.

One of my favorite things about geocaching is how it’s like a secret club. I mean, if you ask me about it, I’ll gladly give you the whole spiel and try to convince you to start too… It’s just really fun to find something that a thousand other people have walked past, something you may have even walked past at one point. It’s a feeling of community without really having to interact with anyone else if you don’t want to. There’s this connection with these people you’ve never even met because you both have ventured off the beaten path just to find a container with a piece of paper inside so you could write your name.

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It can be challenging.

There are lots of caches that fall under the category of “park and grab” which is exactly what it sounds like. Somewhere you can park your car and find the cache in mere moments. Those are fine… but I LOVE a challege. I like when I have to stop and think about the hints provided or what around me could possibly be hiding the log. The critical thinking aspect of geocaching is really fun.

Some fun finds I’ve encountered – Faux hardware, like the bolt above. It was screwed into a guardrail. Once you cross off all obvious places a cache could be that when the wheels in your brain really have to start spinning. We’ve found a multi-cache where the coordinates led you to a container with a key inside but then you had to figure out what around you to unlock to be able to sign the log. Another favorite? Actual logs containing logs. In the photo below, that little stump is the cache. Once flipped over you’ll find what you’re looking for tucked inside a drilled out hole.  Geocaching has me looking at places and objects in a whole different way.

One of my all time favorites, The Apache Death Cave.

Do you geocache? If not, you’re going to start now, RIGHT? I avoided it for a long time for a myriad of dumb reasons (lazy, didn’t see the appeal, intimidated by a hobby others seemed to know so much about, etc) but can’t imagine life without it now. In my list of favorite hobbies it ranks closely with photography and bicycling. The great thing is that I can usually find a way to do all three at once. (This path is lined with caches. What’s cooler than that!?)
xoxo

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project 365 : days 253 – 259

by Kaylah Stroup September 18, 2017

253 : 365 Jeff and I spent the morning geocaching. Found a handful but this was my favorite find of the day. I thought I had missed the cicadas for the year, and after last year’s huge emergence I was bummed.

254 : 365 My ridiculous new phone case!

255 : 365 I replanted some cuttings from pencil cactus in it’s pot. It look so much healthier being full at the bottom like that. Left is before, right is after. Fingers crossed they root.

256 : 365 An arrangement of things found on and around the beach, plus some really rad skeleton socks.

257 : 365 I bought some new plants and have basically taken a photo of them every day since. They’re just SO cute.

258 : 365 Upside down Squid. Deeeefinately hoping to get her belly rubbed.

259 : 365 Another new plant and a silly new planter.

Hope your week is off to an awesome start!
xoxo

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Friday Favorites #432

by Kaylah Stroup September 15, 2017
This post contains affiliate links. For more information on what that means, read here.

This shirt is so great!

(via Tees and Tank You)

Everything in Zaania Skincare’s shop looks and sounds lovely.

(via Zaania Skincare)

Such a cute planter.

(via Cha Supermarket)

This headboard is what my dreams are made of.

(via Urban Outfitters)

SO pretty!

(via Queen of Suburbia)

THIS SWEATSHIRT!

(via Modcloth)

Ca-yooot!

(via Baltic Club)

Obsessed with this gorgeous bag.

(via Amazon)

Lovin’ these earrings!

(via Ginny Reynders)

This bath mat is wonderful!

(via Urban Outfitters)

These mugs are fab!

(via Ms Spanner)

Link love…

  • Can I pat your doggo?
  • Cowcow has a huge selection of Halloween dresses. Bats, ghosts, and so much more. They’re super affordable + actually fit really nicely.
  • Pretty in peach. It’s fancy underthings!
  • Raccoon socks!!
  • Lovin’ this desktop plant stand. I’m all about anything that means there is more room for plants.
  • A TOOTH SHAPED CANDLE!
  • I’m not crazy about the sleeves on this dress but the color and pattern is so so so good!

Happy Friday!
xoxo

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It’s the little things…

by Kaylah Stroup September 14, 2017

For the past four years, I have been waiting for the day Klaus and the cats were finally friends. I adopted a puppy hoping my cats would raise him to be basically a giant cat. That didn’t go as planned though. The cats weren’t fond of this big, smelly, energetic creature, and poor Klaus could never understand why.

The first year there was barely any progress on the friend front. Klaus was more than interested in being buds but neither of the cats wanted anything to do with him. He just had too much energy. The three of them would rarely even be in the same room together.

The second year the cats and Klaus joining Jeff and I in bed was a HUGE deal. I have so many grainy photos of the five of us together that I excitedly took. “I’m touching all my babies at once!” was whisper shouted multiple times. It was a very fragile thing though. One wrong move and the lot of them would scatter. Most of the time they hung out at completely opposite sides of the house unless united by their love of Jeff and I.

The third year things became a bit more comfortable. The three of them were regularly all in the same room, and often joined us in bed for a movie each evening. Touching was definitely off limits but it didn’t matter because I was happy to have everyone together. Once or twice I even caught Professor and Klaus in bed together without Jeff or I joining them. It was an exciting time.

This year everything changed. All of the animals cuddling up on the couch with us in the evening is a common occurrence. There have been more than a handful of occasions where Professor will be laying on my chest and Klaus would cuddle up next to us. Professor sometimes licks Klaus’ ears and even tolerates licks back. Its becoming more and more regular for Professor to smash his little head into Klaus’. (He’s a huge nuzzler!) Unlike in year two and three, it takes a lot of effort to get them off the couch or bed when they’re up there together. I’ve been feeling really great about it. Although I had been thinking that their friendship had reached its height, like if they hadn’t cuddled yet they probably wouldn’t. Then from my office, I glanced back into the living room and spotted this…

On my birthday I managed to grab a photo of a pretty awesome cuddle session between these two (see here) but I had been there as mediator. So to turn around and catch them like this without any other humans nearby was pretty dang exciting. I wonder how often this happens that I don’t catch it. Hopefully all the time…

To read about more good things, check out the tag ‘it’s the little things‘

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rainbows in my home pt. 2

by Kaylah Stroup September 13, 2017

rainbows inside, apartment rainbow

Toward the beggining of the year I discovered the magical world of rainbows in my apartment. I purchased a suncatcher that attached to the window with a suction cup. It changed my world. That sounds so ridiculous and dramatic but truly having rainbows fill my apartment daily is so relaxing. I can’t imagine not having them now.

Because I have the type of personality where when I like something I’m OBSESSED I’ve been looking for even more ways to make my apartment magical. I basically have a suncatcher in each window that gets direct sunlight but I wanted more. I was poking around Amazon, clicking through suggested similar items from the suncatcher listing, and ended up stumbling upon a set of two crystal ball pendants for under ten bucks. They had significantly less reviews than the suncatcher but figured they were worth a shot. The very fact I’m writing a post solely about them should tell you exactly how I feel. But first, some photos…

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The photo above shows rainbows from both the suncatcher (long skinny rainbows) and the crystal balls (short round rainbows.)

The crystal balls come with pre-drilled holes but without any way to hang them. At first I had some string, as pictured below, but later realized how much nicer looking fishing line is. I have them currently have them hanging from the lock on my office window but they’re obviously very easy to move around. With the fishling line, you can’t even see how they’re attached.

If I had to choose between the suncatcher and the crystal balls, I think I would choose the suncatcher because those rainbows take up a lot more space. That’s 100% not to say these aren’t awesome though, like I said I definitely wouldn’t be dedicating a whole post to them if they didn’t completely wow me! I love the way rainbows dance around the room when the wind blows. The small rainbows are a lot less cheesy looking of a rainbow, if that makes any sense to you. I guess what I’m trying to say is that they look like a happy accident instead of a giant rainbow stripe.

For the price, I kind of want to line my window with them! In my opinion, this is definitely a case where more is more. Bring on allll the color. I can’t emphasize enough how wonderful having rainbows in your home is. Like I mentioned, I have some sort of rainbow maker in each of the windows in my apartment that receives direct sunlight but I think my favorite has to be in my bathroom. The timing always seems to work out so that when the sun is hitting it perfectly, that’s the time I’m going in there to shower. I have a clear shower curtain so rainbows cover my body each day while I get cleaned up. It’s the best way to start the day.

He finally caught the rainbow!rainbow maker, the dainty squid
For more rainbow photos be sure to check out my first post about the suncatchers here & for even more magic, try a disco ball.
Updated 8/17 – I found an even better deal on the crystals! A set of 10 for just a few bucks more than I paid for the original set of two. In the year since this post, I’ve filled my window with crystals. It’s THE BEST.
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State of Ohio Asylum for the Insane Cemetery

by Kaylah Stroup September 12, 2017

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Like any completely normal adult, I have a cemetery bucket list. Bucket list seems very appropriate in this context. Ya know, just a bunch of cemeteries I want to see before I too kick the bucket. At the very top of this list was a single headstone that is actually in Ohio. One word…

Specimens.

What in the world are ‘specimens’?! I mean, obviously, I know what the word means but having it on a tombstone seems… I don’t even know. It’s weird. It’s concerning. Just like skulls on a headstone, I think the appeal to me is that is just seems like it has to be fake. It seems more like a Halloween decoration. But it’s not. This headstone resides in Columbus at the State of Ohio Asylum for the Insane Cemetery. Specimens in this case are most likely parts that had been removed during standard procedures and kept to study at the hospital. (Tumors, gallbladders, kidneys, etc) After a number of years it’s easy to imagine they’d probably have a pretty large collection of spare parts that they didn’t know what to do with. I guess it’s also in the realm of possibilities that it’s something a lot more sinister…

I don’t remember how long it’s been on my radar but it’s safe to say it’s been a loooong time. From the minuscule amount of information I could find about this place I was under the impression that it was private property. Despite what my previously blogged about adventures would have you believe, there are certain places I’m just sketched out about trespassing. Patrolled state property is definitely one of those places I don’t want to be lurking around on my own.

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On the way down to Louisville the weekend before last Jeff asked if I wanted to stop at the cemetery. I’ve honestly been begging him to go down there with me since we met but my lack of information on the place made the drive seem like it might not really be worth it. Since I was driving he mapped it out and got me directions. I was nervous we wouldn’t be able to visit but excited that he was finally willing to go with me.

There are a handful of cemeteries that the mental health hospital used and luck was in my favor because two of them have geocaches. I know that just because there is a geocache somewhere doesn’t make it a legal place to be buuuut you have to agree that “Oh, I’m sorry, we were just looking for a geocache.” sounds a lot better to most people than “I like to photograph cemeteries.”

My main priority was finding the ‘specimen’ headstone so that’s where we headed first. Jeff went straight for the geocache while I proceeded to photograph headstones. I’m not going to lie, finally seeing it was sort of anticlimactic. I had a very vivid vision in my head of what visiting would be like and this was nothing like that at all. We parked in a parking lot and walked into a fairly well manicured cemetery. No sneaking, no feeling like I shouldn’t be there, just a regular old cemetery. Still, I was pleased to be there.

About 25% of the cemetery is filled with headstones similar in shape to the specimen one except they have names and dates. At first I assumed the rest of the cemetery was empty or at least had a bunch of unmarked graves but I quickly realized how wrong I was. Small headstones the size of bricks cover the cemetery. Each one marked with a number and “M”for male or “F” for female. Despite the fact the cemetery wasn’t overgrown or abandoned by any means, its easy to see how in another ten years or so any traces of the smaller headstones could be gone. This was only my second experience with headstones that didn’t have names, only identifying numbers so it’s still a bit perturbing to me. (See Wayne County Home Cemetery) These ones especially so since marking with male or female makes it seem even more anonymous.

After the first cemetery, we headed to a second. I was a bit more hesitant about visiting this one but again, geocaching seemed like a good enough excuse to be there. We parked on a little dirt pull off on the side of a fairly busy road and followed a muddy trail back to the cemetery. The approach to this cemetery was a bit closer to what I imagined the other one being like. Despite following a very clear path there, I felt like we had discovered a little piece of forgotten history.

One of my favorite things about the second cemetery was the arrangement of the headstones. There was a grave marker in the middle that was almost illegible except for “C. O. L. Asylum”. Surrounding that were small, rectangular headstones. There were lots of interesting ones including a few unknowns, a handful with names and only death dates but my favorite of the group had to be “(?) GLICK” Was that their nickname and their real name was unknown? Perhaps Glick was their last name and their first was unknown? Either way, I think it’s really interesting to put a question mark on a headstone. headstone, question mark, State of Ohio Asylum for the Insane Cemetery

I am so happy to finally crossed “specimens” off my list of things to see, and even happier to have also visited a second cemetery with equally as interesting headstones. There is so much history packed into these places!

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Check out even more interesting graveyards under the “cemeteries” tag!
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project 365 : days 246 – 252

by Kaylah Stroup September 11, 2017

246 : 365 Two things significant about this photo. 1. She was 115!!! 2. This cemetery was supposed to be just a quick stop while we were down in Louisville. Then we got there and I was like “whaaaaaaa?!” Eastern Cemetery is an ‘abandoned’ cemetery that folks have been working to clean up for the last few years. I knew that going into it but I didn’t realize how overgrown it still was. I had the time of my life running around in the tall grass, shooting photos. I have so so so many pictures to share soon.

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247 : 365 The remnants of an abandoned train station.

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248 : 365 Rainbows, rainbow, rainbows! I bought a thing to make my apartment even more packed to the brim with rainbows. More on that coming soon but in the mean time, check out this post about my other rainbow makers.

rainbow maker

249 : 365 A quick look at my pin collection. It was a hot mess so I sat down and reorganized everything.

250 : 365 Our geocaching adventure for the day took us to a stream we had never been to before. It appealed to me because it clearly doubled as a dumping ground or was down stream from one at some point. Old bottles, pottery, and other strange odds and ends were poking out of the ground. I could have spent forever there searching for treasure. I didn’t find anything worth bringing home but I did see a shopping cart filled with sticks, and build a cairn from a huge random metal object and some rocks.

251 : 354 A very clever geocache!

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252 : 365 My nephew turns 14 today and for his birthday he wanted Jeff and I to join him and his pals on a bike ride down a trail that is just lined with geocaches. I’m tickled pink that my nephew thinks we’re cool enough that he wanted to hang with us on his birthday. He’s super rad, and we have a ton of hobbies in common. We biked for around six hours and found 65 geocaches. It was a blast.

It was a really awesome week. Jeff had taken the week off work so that we could take a roadtrip. My dad’s surgery, which was supposed to be last week, got rescheduled for the week we were going to be away. Needless to say, that ended up getting canceled. We decided to take a mini trip to Louisville, and then spend the rest of the week goofing off around our house. Basically, we had a staycation. It was great. I never thought I was the staycationing type but 10/10, would definitely do again!
xoxo

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Friday Favorites #431

by Kaylah Stroup September 8, 2017
This post contains affiliate links. For more information on what that means, read here.

Welp, this is amazing.

(via En Avril)

Oooh! These shoes!

(via Nine West)

Very into this sorta strange necklace.

(via Ivy & Gold Handcraft)

These curtains are perfect!

(via Urban Outfitters)

A zine about self care that includes some space to add your own favorite methods!

(via Moorea Seal)

THIS!

(via Old English Co)

Simple leather bag that can be worn as a backpack or a shoulder bag! It’s perfect, it’d match everything.

(via Amazon)

Dainty skull earrings. So adorable.

(via Datter)

Pretty postcards!

(via Alpaca Press)

How pretty is this mirror/jewelry organizer? I can also picture it with dried flowers hanging down instead of jewelry!

(via Urban Outfitters)

 

Link love…

  • Cactus candle!!!
  • This macbook decal is too pretty.
  • Lovin’ this saturn necklace.
  • I don’t know what this is all about but here’s a painting of a dog eating kibble from a bowl.
  • If you need a smile, here are some dog goggles. Yep, goggles for dogs. The customer review photos are incredible.
  • It’s been too long since I featured any amazing lingerie. I present to you this bra.

Happy Friday!
xoxo

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