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Okay fine, I’m grateful! – a book review

by Kaylah Stroup February 13, 2018

Okay fine, I'm grateful!

‘What I’ve been reading‘ posts have been few and far between here on The Dainty Squid. I just haven’t been making reading a priority lately. I dooo, however, have a book recommendation for you!

Something I really wanted to do this year was focus on the good. It sounds cheesy but honestly, it’s incredibly easy to just get hung up on the bad things in life. I can’t even count the number of times I’ve gotten home and immediately told Jeff about somebody driving poorly instead of the gorgeous sunset that I just witnessed. I want to change that. I feel like it takes a lot to rewire your brain to stop being so negative but I also think that it’s something worth working on – OF COURSE. All that to say, I recently decided I wanted create a habit of making little lists of good things.

Right after thinking about starting a gratitude journal I happened to stumble upon this one. The sassy cover roped me in. I bought it immediately. Obviously you don’t need a special book to write positive things in but I mean, it certainly doesn’t hurt. Plus once you find the perfect one, it makes you extra excited to get started, and actually keep up with your goal.

gratitude journal

The book has a brief introduction about how important having a gratitude journal is. Studies have even shown that having one has an impressive range of benefits such as better sleep, higher levels of positive emotions, acting with more generosity, feeling less loney… The list goes on!

After that you’ll find that the left side contains quotes and the right side is where you’ll do your writing. (TBH, I am not a quote person. I could not care less about this half of the book.) Each of the writing sections says “Why I’m grateful today, more or less:” and has fifteen lines for you to journal your little heart out. The top of the page has a small section for the date, and the bottom has little mood faces to choose from to record “today’s gratitude level”.

Clearly this book was made with the intention of you using each page as a seperate day but I’ve never really been huge on journaling. List making is more my style so I’ve been writing little positive highlights from each day in the following style:

1-22 found TWO plastic soldiers on the beach!
1-22 facetiming Jeff right as he facetimed me.
1-26 bike rides yelling ‘happy friday!’
1-27 being woken up with back rubs.
1-31 got my wedding dress – I look like a princess!!!
2-5 sunshine on snowy days.
2-10 DIY haircuts gone right.
2-11 sledding with the kids!

(Those are actual things I wrote in my book.)

It may not seem like much but taking the time to acknowledge those good moments is such a game changer! It forces you to look for the good, and being able to look back on your lists is seriously the best. I make an effort to write at least one thing every single day. Some days are easier than other but I’ve found that most of the time once I get started writing I just keep thinking of things.

I bought it in the smaller, perfectly purse-sized version so that it’d be easier to always keep around but it does come in a larger version as well.

Like I said before, totally something you could do just as effectively on any old piece of paper but if you’re looking for a special place to start a gratitiude journal, I highly recommend this book! And of course, I definitely recommend taking a few moments each day to just write down some positive things that happened if you’re not doing it already!
xoxo

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Friday Favorites #452

by Kaylah Stroup February 9, 2018
This post contains affiliate links. For more information on what that means, read here.

Evie May Adams’ pet portraits are the absolute cutest! Love her style.

(via Evie May Adams)

Look at this rad earring holder! Quiet Clementine also makes some really cute earrings as well.

(via Quiet Clementine)

This shirt!

(via Bella Ella Boutique)

This doesn’t look like the kind of couch that you could cuddle up on at the end of the day but its so cool!

(via Urban Outfitters)

This mirror!

(via Moorea Seal)

Lovin’ this cactus covered wrap! There’s a top with the same print too!

(via Bead & Reel)

This pin is purr-fect!

(via Hello!Lucky)

This shelf! Comes in a few different colors too!

(via Urban Outfitters)

The perfect mustard colored skirt!

(via Bella Ella Boutique)

I wanna try this mask so bad! Really just love Elizavecca Milkypiggy products so much! Also, I really love saying ‘milkypiggy’ (Last week I shared a list of my favorite face masks if you’d like to check it out!)

(via Amazon)

BEE PANTS!

(via Modcloth)

Link love…

  • LOVE the cut of this dress.
  • This photo antiquities museum looks amazing, and it’s not really all that far from me…
  • Uh, soap that looks and smells just like bacon? Because I know it’s juuuust what you were looking for.
  • This isn’t the type of dress that would really catch my attention while browsing online but I just happend to try it on in the store and you guys, it’s the best!!! Bought it for my wedding trip! Can’t wait to actually wear it.
  • Corgi socks!
  • If you’ve been wanting to take your blog to the next level, you should check out this e-course (and learn from the best!)
  • Shoes that are not only black and white striped but polka dotted too!

Happy Friday!!
xoxo

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rad valentine’s day card round up!

by Kaylah Stroup February 7, 2018


1. Hey Boo! // 2. I’m so lucky I found you // 3. The only way I could love you more... // 4. Outlaw for your love // 5. You’re my gal // 6. I only have eyes for you // 7. Dum dum dog // 8. You’re quite the catch // 9. You’re my favorite part // 10. When I look at you… // 11. You’re swan in a million // 12. Flavortown // 13. You mean a great dill to me // 14. Love you many moons // 15. Bananas for you // 16. Where you go, I go // 17. You’re my everything bagel // 18. I’m stuck on you

Valentine’s Day is sneaking up fast and today, February 7th, is ‘send a card to a friend day’. I don’t know about you but I really love all the silly little holidays that have become oh so popular these last few years. I’m all about finding any reason to celebrate. Today I’m celebrating by rounding up 18 rad cards by rad artists (and finally replying to some long overdue mail!)
xoxo

PS. If you’re still looking for a gift – 9 wonderfully weird gifts for your valentine!
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affordable + dyeable hair extensions!

by Kaylah Stroup February 6, 2018

affordable, dye-able hair extensions!

For nearly a year my list of beauty related things I wanted to try included extensions. The urge to buy them would come in waves. I would desperately ‘need’ them and spend hours researching then completely forget about them for a bit. My research was never really conclusive. Good extensions usually aren’t cheap and there are more than a few overly influenced looking reviews out there floating around the internet.

I finally decided to just go for it, and purchase a set a few month back so I thought I would give a little insight into what I bought, how to dye them to match your hair, and share what they look like…

green hair clip in extensions, hair dye extensions you can dye! hair extensions you can dye!

I purchased these 16″ clip in extensions in bleach blonde. It was important to me to purchase human hair so that I could style, wash, and most importantly, dye the extensions. This set came with six pieces which was more than enough for me. Honestly, what you need will be based on how thick your hair is and what you’re looking to acheive with the extensions. My hair is thin, and I wasn’t looking to add length – just volume. I actually very rarely wear all six pieces at once. It feels a little too over the top for me – too thick, too obvious.

How to dye your hair extensions –

Dyeing the hair was actually a huge reason I was so nervous about purchasing extensions. Come to find out, I definitely over thought this step. Since I purchased bleach blonde hair, all that needed to be done was for me to apply dye. I used Punky Colour in Alpine Green, the same color I use in my real hair. I simply ran it through the extensions with gloved hands and then set them down on a plastic bag for about an hour or so before rinsing with cold water. I let them air dry then they were ready to use.

One thing to consider when purchasing and dyeing extensions is the fact your hair color fades with each wash and you most likely won’t be washing your extensions even a fraction of the number of times. I’ve embraced the fact that my hair color is an ever-changing thing and I love all the different colors and tones my hair is at any given time. I think hair looks more natural, I mean as natural as green hair can be, when there are different levels of color going on. The fact that my extensions are always a slightly different color than my hair is actually desirable. I think this post perfectly illustrates how my extensions look in my hair as it changes color over time.

How to style your extensions –

There are a ton of videos on how to put in your clip on extensions so I won’t be covering that. (Honestly, just google it! So many youtubers cover this I couldn’t pick a favorite.) I do, however, want to mention that I put the extensions in while my hair is still straight. That way everything gets curled together giving me a more natural look.

Before styling I make sure to spritz them, along with my real hair, with a heat protecting spray. Since they are made of real hair they will get damaged if you aren’t protecting them.

affordable, dye-able hair extensions! how to dye hair extensions

left – with extensions / right – without — main hair color is Punky Spring Green

I was having trouble capturing a before and after photo that I felt accurately showed the difference of just my natural hair vs extensions. Of course, I could have shot some TV style comparisons where I look super gross and run down in the before and incredibly glamorous in the after but that isn’t what this is about. Think of hair extensions like make up, it’s fun to play with but not actually necessary. My hair is just fine without them but wearing extensions is a fun little change of pace. The difference isn’t wildly different but just enough to make you feel fab!

left – without extensions / right – with

extensions - before & after

the following photos in this post all include extensions.

green hair extensionshair extensions you can dye

I’m definitely no extension expert but in my short time experimenting I feel like I’ve learned a lot. By all means, if you have any questions, I’d be happy to try and answer!
xoxo

✨ You can find hair dye tips and guides in my hair master post. ✨
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Friday Favorites #451

by Kaylah Stroup February 2, 2018
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Yes please to this mug!

(via Twelve9 Printing)

These shoes!

(via Amazon)

The color! The pattern! Love this dress!

(via Modcloth)

While we’re on the subject of cute clothing with bike prints – check out this pullover!

(via Modcloth)

Between Valentine’s Day and getting married this summer, I am utterly obsessed with lingerie. How gorgeous is this bra!?

(via Nordstrom)

Phone cases that hold instax photos! Such a cute idea.

(via Urban Outfitters)

Have you seen CALPAK’s collab with Oh Joy!? Just look at these suitcases! So fun!

(via Nordstrom)

They’re a little bit pricey but these polaroid frames are so neat!

(via MagnaFrames)

This color is so pretty! Have you ever noticed how hard it is to find green nail polish?!

(via Julep)

Love love love these socks!

(via Urban Outfitters)

This dress is perfect for summer… ya know, whenever that comes around again.

(via Accompany)

Link love…

  • How rad is this vintage hand shaped compact!?
  • Monstera leaf coasters!
  • Diggin this pink rain coat.
  • Lovin’ these clogs!
  • Some fun vintage medical model finds – visible woman (it’s unopened! ah!), seeing eye model ($20!!) + bone display that shows off the neck and base of skull aaaand comes in a rad little wood display box.
  • Polka dot instax film!

Happy Friday!
xoxo

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9 wonderfully weird gifts for your valentine

by Kaylah Stroup February 1, 2018

1. Prosthetic glass eye. Perhaps paired with a card that says ‘I only have eyes for you‘?

2. Fine Specimen card.

3. Morticia and Gomez Addams lapel pins. Maybe Adam and Barbara Maitland are more your style?

4. Enamel heart pin.

5. You’re my love bug card.

6. Pink cat candle… with a skeleton inside. Comes in a handful of other animals too!

7. Fatally Yours gourmet chocolates. Chocolates are always a solid idea for a Valentine’s Day gift but when they look this good?! Yes, please! (They’re vegan!)

8. Human heart model. Because they’ve already given you theirs… Awww!

9. What’s more romantic than naming a roach after your Valentine? The Bronx zoo is offering a handful of different packages including one that comes with socks, a pin, and roach shaped chocolates!

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My ‘30 gift ideas for your ~weird~ friend‘ post from last holiday season was not only really fun for me to make but it was extremely well received. After getting an email about the roaches you can name at the Bronx Zoo (Thanks, Elizabeth!) I knew I had to make a Valentine’s Day themed gift guide as well. It’s definitely not as huge of a list as my previous gift guide for weirdos but I still feel like it has some super solid recommendations. Enjoy!
xoxo

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what I’ve been wearing pt. 2

by Kaylah Stroup January 29, 2018

cleveland style blogger

Back again today with another ‘what I’ve been wearing’ round up! I’ve begun making more of an effort to get dressed on days I work from home in the hope that it helps me be and feel more productive. So far, so good! Here’s what I’ve been wearing…

dress / shoes

This dress is one of my FAVORITE recent finds. I’m a huge fan of how it fits, and I’m realizing how much I loooove when dresses have a sheer overlay. Reminds me a lot of this dress. I seriously cannot wait to be able to wear this bad boy outside without a coat or tights. Nothing beats a dress that doesn’t need any other accessories to look amazing!

shirt / skirt / shoes

Another easy to wear outfit – this top + skirt. I can’t wait to wear this with just a pair of sandals!

shirt / overalls / socks (similar)

 I liked the shirt featured in the outfit previous to this one so much that I went on a hunt for similar things and ended up with this one. I hit the jackpot! Under $15, a bunch of different colors available, and it’s absolutely perfect for wearing under overalls – something my shirts do a lot of! Definitely going to need to pick up a black one.

dainty squid, kaylah doolan, green hair, ootd, pattern clashing

cardigan / shirt / skirt  (similar) / shoes

Pattern clashing LIKE A BOSS! I bought this shirt thinking it’d look cute with a pair of jeans. When I tried that on though it just didn’t feel like me. Paired with a polka dot skirt and a (mostly) solid colored cardigan it’s perfect. Super stoked about this outfit! Not super stoked about those roots though. Eeek! It was one of those times when it took seeing them in photos to realize just how grown out they were. Remedied that reeeeal quick after noticing. Wish my hair would just grow in green! 

the dainty squid, kaylah doolan, cleveland fashion blog

shirt / jeans

This outfit reminds me of New Orleans since I had just purchased this shirt right before visiting there last year. I fell in love with this outfit and was so excited to wear it while on vacation. It’s simple but it’s very comfortable (seriously, these jeans are like jammies!) and always takes me right back to that awesome trip. I love when an outfit holds memories.

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Check out my last ‘what I’ve been wearing’ round up here or browse the rest of the ‘what I wore’ archives here.

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If you’d like to keep up with my ‘outfit of the day’ posts before they’re shared here, you can follow me on instagram!
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Friday Favorites #450

by Kaylah Stroup January 26, 2018
This post contains affiliate links. For more information on what that means, read here.

Last week I mentioned possibly starting a gratitude journal. I happened to find this absolutely perfect one shortly after typing that and immediately bought it. (Well, I bought the smaller version so that it was portable!) I’m super excited!

(via Amazon)

How cute is this pineapple dress?! I love those sleeves and of course, the print! It’s also under $25!

(via Amazon)

I own these boots in regular rain boot height (super scientific way to describe it, I know!) and LOVE them. I did not know they came in this adorable height too! I’m a huge fan of Joules rain boots. They can take a beatin’!

(via Modcloth)

Warby Parker now has my favorite glasses (Louise – see them on me here) in rose gold!! PS. Don’t forget they have a free at home try on program!!!

(via Warby Parker)

Love love lovin’ these starry curtain panels! They come in black too!

(via Urban Outfitters)

Meeee! (-ish? This is something I always think about when I share something along these lines – I love to travel, and constantly daydream about my next trip but I also really just love to be at home. I’m never sure if the ‘homebody’ title is something I can claim or not. Basically, I either want to be at home or REALLY far away from home. Either way, this is a cute pin!)

(via Wit & Whistle)

Pizza Valentines! I think I just really love those clear envelopes. Honestly, this is a super easy idea to DIY but if you’re feeling lazy you can find them here.

(via Modcloth)

I think everyone could use a positivity calendar on their wall!

(via Calliope Paperie)

This dress! Also, some starry boots!!!

(via Nasty Gal)

Bug socks!

(via Amazon)

I originally was just stoked on how cute this dress was but then I saw this shot! So much color! I love it!

(via Accompany)

Link love…

  • Dying over this sheer lingerie/sleepwear set. I love, love loooove sheer underthings. This style is so not me but because it’s sheer I’m super into it!  NSFW, obviously. I mean, I just said ‘sheer lingerie’…
  • Digging this romper, big time!
  • These socks are weird as all heck and I like ’em!
  • Just taking a second here to laugh about the fact that as I scrolled through etsy, their ‘recommended for you’ suggestions were literally just wedding dresses, and human teeth. That could not be more accurate.  Also, that wedding dress I just linked to – GORGEOUS.
  • PIZZA. SCENTED. PENS. omg!
  • While we’re on the subject, here are some pizza slippers and a pizza leggings.

Happy Friday!
xoxo

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13 pairs of earrings I’m crushing on…

by Kaylah Stroup January 24, 2018

 

statement earrings1 — 2 — 3 — 4 — 5 — 6 — 7 — 8 — 9 — 10 — 11 — 12 — 13

In case you’ve been living on another planet these last few months, back in September I got my earlobes reconstructed. (Orginal post here + 4 month update) Thirteen plus years of stretching, all gone in a few hours. I could not be more excited about my new little lobes. For the first month or so I went back and forth on whether or not I wanted to get them repierced. Alas, the allure of starting a new collection is just too strong to deny!

I still have a little over two months before I can get them pierced, and then, of course, healing time before I can wear any ~fun~ earrings. I’m trying not to buy anything until then but that definitely has not stopped me from browsing the internet far and wide to find unique earrings!

My current obsession is pom pom earrings. That’s probably the number one style I’m looking forward to trying out. I’ve found tons of DIYs so I’m guessing I’ll have an abundance of them in the near future. Especially since buying pom pom makers and realizing just how addicting making them is…

pom pom earring DIY found on the spruce, by Lovely Indeed

I’ve got lots of things to look forward to in the coming months. Uh, MY WEDDING! In the grand scheme of things, getting my ears pierced is pretty small but I seriously can’t wait! You can definitely count on seeing lots of fun earring finds around these parts, especially after I start my own collection.
xoxo

By all means, if you know of any brands with earrings I might love let me know!
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    • explore everywhere
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  • shop