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what I wore : beachcombing

by Kaylah Stroup November 26, 2018

the dainty squid - what I wore beachcombingpink camera bag lake erie beach glass

It’s been a busy few days with Thanksgiving last week. Jeff had off Thursday, Friday, and of course, the weekend so we essentially had a four day weekend. Lots of food, and time spent with family and friends. It was lovely. I also managed to convince him to go to the beach with me twice(!!) – which makes it sound like he doesn’t have any fun but I think he might even enjoy looking for treasure more than I do. When I asked him to take a few photos of me he kept getting distracted by fresh finds the lake was washing in. At least I can pull myself away for a few seconds…

Beachcombing is one of my absolute favorite hobbies. I’m so happy my husband seems to be really getting into it as well. It’s a blast to share that with someone, especially someone who is just as hyped about the cool things I find as I am. It definitely takes a special kind of person to agree that finding a tiny shard of pottery with only the teensiest bit of color on it is cool.

After we throughly comb the sand, our routine has been to come home and spread out our finds on the kitchen table. It’s the best. I treasure our treasure hunting time together. I’m quite sad that we’ve fallen into this little pattern just as the weather is starting to change though. While you can definitely hunt for beach treasures all year long – I’ve certainly found great glass in the dead of winter – it’s a heck of a lot less enjoyable in the cold. Hopefully the coming year will hold lots of nice weather, treasure hunts… maybe even a metal detector and youtube channel? Who knows!

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coat – c/o Modcloth
sweater – c/o Modcloth
jeans – c/o Modcloth
camera bag – pink backpack via Amazon
boots – no longer available but here’s a light silver glitter pair!

PS. Modcloth is having a huge Cyber Monday sale! 40% off EVERYTHING. Includes already marked down items too!

beach glass

A few recent favorite finds. The green piece above is probably my all time best find. It’s such an incredible piece of beach glass. Perfectly worn down, big, and that color!?! Gah! So good. And below, my very first piece of jewelry found on the beach. Nothing special but there is definitely a thrill to sifting through the pebbles and seeing a ring hiding out.

lake erie beach glass

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Thankful

by Kaylah Stroup November 22, 2018

Before I even started typing this post, the water works started. 2018 has been amazing so far. I have so much to be thankful for it’d be impossible to write it all in a single blog post but here I go anyway…

I’m thankful for the all opportunities I’ve had to travel this year. We went all over the United States. Portland, Oregon to Portland, Maine and a bunch of stops inbetween. Sometimes it was just Jeff and I but the trip that stands out the most is, very obviously, our wedding trip. I’m still just over the moon we managed to convince everyone to go to the desert with us. That was easily the most special week of my entire life. I’m thankful for everyone that came and shared it with us and for all the memories we made.

I’m thankful for my pets who have grown closer this year than ever before. Having all three of them up on the couch with us together is no longer out of the ordinary. I might even call Professor and Klaus buddies. I mean, they do give each other kisses!! These three make me smile every single day.

I’m thankful for my friends and all our adventures. Bike rides, day trips to other cities, and doing our best to try every place we’ve never eaten before.

I’m especially thankful for my friendship with Elycia. Keeping long distance friends isn’t easy but somehow we’ve been doing it for the last seven years. She’s the absolute best, and maybe the only other person in the world I can handle being around for long periods of time other than Jeff.

(above photo by Madeline Barr)

I’m thankful for our apartment and our neighborhood. I still can’t believe we managed to snag a newly remodeled apartment that fit all of our needs in the heart of the neighborhood we wanted to live in the most. Two years later, I’ve only come to love Tremont and our cozy little apartment even more.

I’m thankful for my husband. What a wonderful year it’s been for us! I didn’t think that marriage would change anything. I mean, we were really just adding a silly piece of paper to our relationship but y’all I LOVE being his wife. He spoils me, cheers me on and generally just helps me be a better person. We’re a dream team together. I feel so lucky!! (I am purposely keeping this brief because we have an anniversary coming up and I don’t want that post to literally just be a repeat of this!) 

More more more! I’m thankful for…
▴ everyone who posts cute animals and positive things on the internet on a regular basis (the world needs you!) ▴ honestly? netflix. streaming whatever I want whenever I want is pretty awesome. ▴ the fact that my pets don’t bother my plants ▴ saturday mornings spent at our favorite coffee shop ▴ night walks around the neighborhood ▴ my parents for many many reasons but also because they always babysit Klaus for us no matter how little warning I give them ▴ living so close to the Lake & the fact that no one is ever there

Happy Thanksgiving, y’all!
xoxo

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Old North Cemetery

by Kaylah Stroup November 14, 2018

Throwing it back to August’s New England road trip again today!

As I mentioned in previous posts from this trip*, we had no real destinations or purpose. Jeff wanted to eat lobster roll and I was interested in the many, many old cemeteries that cover the area. Even with those things in mind, we were really just driving around hoping fun things would fall into our laps. Not our brightest idea. Works in the desert because of the lack of other people but aimlessly driving through areas with high traffic is the worst.

Old North Cemetery in Portsmouth, New Hampshire really was something that just fell into our laps though! While driving down the highway Jeff saw a sign for Portsmouth and asked if I’d like to take go there. I said, “why not?” I’d never been there before and I’ll always take any opportunity to explore a new area, even if only for a brief moment.

I think we both spotted the cemetery at the same time. I basically couldn’t get out of the car fast enough!

Old North Cemetery was established in 1753 and is the second old cemetery in the city of Portsmouth. Gosh darn it! See, if I had done my research beforehand like a normal person I could have visited the oldest one too. Looking on Google Streetview, it looks pretty awesome. Guess we should go back! It’s only an acre and a half of land but it’s jam-packed full of history, incredible headstones, and my favorite things – like skulls and chubby cherub faces. The cemetery is surrounded by a pond, a railyard and… wait for it… another cemetery. Basically, it’s perfect.

I spent so much time wandering around in the oppressive heat trying to see every single headstone. Every few steps I was motioning to Jeff, who was sitting in the air-conditioned car, how excited I was.

One of my favorites. Although not an old stone, what a title! ‘Sea captain of this town’!?! I also really appreciate that it says ‘husband of’. That’s not common at all.

Until next time, Portsmouth! We’ll be back with more time to wander, and maybe a better idea of what to get into so we don’t miss out again.
xoxo

More from this trip –
▴ Three days in New England
▴ Ponyhenge
▴ The Burying Point
▴ the Atlantic Ocean
▴ Old Burial Hill Cemetery

 

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adventures in avocado propagation VII

by Kaylah Stroup November 13, 2018

November 2nd, 2018

Around eleven months ago I popped my first avocado pit in a small container of water with the hope of growing something. My end goal has never been to grow my own avocados. (It would take many, many years!) Instead, I simply wanted to watch something I would normally have thrown in the trash grow.

If you’ve been following along, you may have noticed how my updates have been a little more spaced out. It’s been a couple months since my last avocado pit post. The growth hasn’t been all the noticeable as of late. Things are definitely changing and growing but it’s just not as dramatic as the process of root growth.

I still want to share updates though! In another few months I know I’ll want a reference photo to see how they’re doing comparatively. Growing avocado pits is such a terribly slow process that without photos, I might feel defeated. Being able to track their growth through photos really helps keep me motivated and excited.

September 20th, 2018

September 26th, 2018

Look at those big leaves on the one in dirt! They get big but honestly, never look at that healthy. They also brown at the ends after a few weeks which is why they aren’t in any other photos after this one. I pinch them off the second I notice them looking any worse than this.

October 23rd, 2018

November 12th, 2018

Below is a great example of what I was talking about at the beginning of this post, documenting so I can have a better idea of how things are progressing. The first photo was taken on September 3rd and the second photo was taken on November 12th.

Have you started your own avocado pits yet!?
xoxo

Past updates – part 1, part 2,  part 3, part 4,  part 5 + part 6. Part one contains my how-to and some tips for starting out.
My dress in the first photo is from RedBubble. Use code ‘H18-thedaintysquid’ for 15% your entire order, good today through the 31st of December.
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found on the beach – 56 lighters

by Kaylah Stroup November 8, 2018

For years I’ve been intriqued by the number of lighters that wash up on the beach. I find a wide variety of things in the sand, as seen in my arrangements, but the lighters! There are always just so dang many of them.

The first time it really stuck out to me was 2014, I noticed there seemed to be a lot of them and ended up picking up 50 lighters in one pass of the beach. Earlier this year, I decided to do another lighter exclusive photo and ended up finding 52 lighters total. This trip? 63 of them total! 56 in these photos and another seven on the way back to the car.

There would be times when I’d bend down to pick up one and spot another one or two that I could reach from my squat. It just blows my mind.

bee boots by Joules

A quick found on the beach FAQ

  1. You found all of these in one trip?  Sadly, yes. This isn’t even half of it either. I also picked up a full tote bag of trash on this visit.
  2. What do you do with all after your done? Normally I toss it in the trash or recycle if appropriate. Sometimes I may take certain pieces with me if I think they’ll look cool in a future arrangement or if it’s something I collect. Toy soldiers & all other tiny plastic characters come home with me! I also collect plastic plants, leaves and flowers.
  3. Do you wear gloves when you pick all this trash up? No, I don’t. These are things that are washed up from the lake, not just left on shore. They’re no dirtier than the sand or water. That’s not to say I don’t sanitize my hands as soon as I get back in my car though…
  4. Are all of your beaches this gross? No, absolutely not. We have lots of gorgeous, clean and downright picturesque beaches along Lake Erie. This one in particular just seems to collect all the debris from the lake. I have yet to find another this bad in the area.

CHECK OUT MORE ‘FOUND ON THE BEACH” POSTS HERE!

If you like my ‘found on the beach’ collections – prints, phone cases, and more can be found here.

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that time I reunited antique photos with their family…

by Kaylah Stroup November 7, 2018

I got my collecting gene from my dad. We both love junk. He doesn’t necessarily collect things like I do but he certainly loves to buy them. His Saturday mornings are spent auctioning and he’s a huge fan of a dollar box.

If you aren’t familiar with auctions, larger items and things that are worth something get auctioned off individually but there are tons of items that it’s just not worth anyone’s time to do that with. Those get thrown in a box. Before an auction starts you have the opportunity to go around and finger through things and see if a box might contain something you’re interested in. Sometimes boxes go for a lot, when someone spots something inside they have their heart set on, but quite often they sell for next to nothing. Dollar boxes are fairly common at the auctions he attends, and sometimes the auctioneer will even offer a lot of boxes for a single dollar simply because no one is bidding. My dad loves that. Many times he’ll come home with just boxes and boxes of random things because he couldn’t resist. He then distributes the finds among my brothers, their children and I. Of course, there is lots of actual junk but he’s definitely found more than a few really great things.

Over the summer, one of his dollar box finds was three photo albums chock-full of old photos dating all the way back to 1912 which he gave to me knowing I LOVE old photos. I pored over those albums. The photos were incredible. I had no idea what I’d do with the massive album and it’s two smaller buddies but I certainly couldn’t let them just get tossed.

Fast forward to last week, I was cleaning my office and stumbled upon the albums again. I remembered that there were some Christmas photos which made me think maybe I could find an old Halloween photo as well and that it’d make a cool Instagram post. While flipping through the pages of the largest album, I spotted a newspaper clipping. Mrs. Mary Krall had written in to The Cleveland Press about her giant turnips requesting that they share a photo since she took such ‘great pride’ in them. Out of curiosity and not really expecting to find anything, I decided to look up the name and address listed. I found a listing on FindAGrave that revealed she was buried in a cemetery near my home!

I flipped through the album a few more times, searching for faces I could tie to names and names I could hopefully tie to headstones I would search for. In my hunt, I even found photos of a family headstone that were taken back on Halloween of 1948.

Armed with names and a hand-drawn map I made from the terribly hard to read ones available online I headed for the cemetery! Luckily, the map I drew had some key elements that made hunting down the headstones fairly easy. Less than two hours after looking up the name online I was standing at her grave.

Being able to hunt down the graves of those in the album was a thrill! I have so many interesting old photos that I’d love to figure out more about. It’s just really neat to be able to tie names to photos to headstones. More exciting than that though?

I’VE REUNITED THE ALBUM WITH IT’S FAMILY!

As I write this post, the three albums are in the mail heading to one of the men in the photograph’s great-niece. When I was looking up some of the names I found in the albums on different sites, I happened to notice a comment on FindAGrave that sparked my interest. Someone had left a comment indicating they thought this person might be their great uncle. I couldn’t click on the name fast enough! Her profile made me even more excited as it was clear she was super interested in family history. She had surnames listed on her page that matched up with the album. I had chills.

I reached out, showed her the photos and offered to send the albums her way. She seemed very excited and shared some family history with me. I can’t even imagine how I’d feel if the tables were turned. I’ve literally had dreams about finding old albums of my family in random places.

It’s so funny that one little comment she left, probably not thinking much of it, was able to connect us. I guess that goes to show if you’re interested in your family tree and doing research online, always leave a trail of breadcrumbs so people can find you!

Another fun tidbit from this saga – The large black album? The woman I reached out to said a matching one was found in her mother’s things when she passed away. So interesting, right?!

I’m still just over the moon about this whole thing. Every step of it has been exciting – getting the album, finding names, researching their history, searching out the headstones, and of course, tracking down a living relative to give the album back to. It’s always been a mystery to me how old albums like this get tossed in the trash or put up for auction. I couldn’t imagine how no one in a family would be interested in keeping them but now I’ve realized that just because they end up in these places doesn’t mean everyone in the family knows they’re there. My dad doesn’t recall which auction he got these from or what else was there. I’m so curious if there were more old albums stashed in other boxes or if there were other important family heirlooms floating around that auction. I’m just so happy to be able to play a part in getting a little piece of family history back where it belongs.

Gosh, now all I want to do is find old things at auctions and track down family who might still want it!
xoxo

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globe collection 2018

by Kaylah Stroup November 5, 2018

The Dainty Squid globe collection

Something you may have noticed from my photos, particularly the ones on Instagram, is that I collect globes. You may also know that if you’ve been reading for a while because a few years back I actually shared a post about my globe collection. (Check that out here.) Since that post, I’ve gained a few new additions to my collection, and I’ve moved into a new apartment.

I stumbled upon that old post a little while back and had the idea to do an updated version. I think it’s really interesting how different a collection can look based on how it’s displayed. This apartment? It came with the PERFECT way to display my globes. Unlike my old apartment, where they were scattered about in different rooms, the majority of my collection is in one spot now. The top of my kitchen cabinets and fridge display all but four of my globes.

globes vintage globes, globes

Of the remaining four not in the kitchen, three are grouped together in my living room and the last is in my bedroom. Honestly, if the one in my bedroom, a pedestal globe, would fit in the kitchen that’s definitely where it’d be. Alas, there’s no room on top of the fridge for it!

The three in my living room are all moon globes. Going through my collection it’s easy to say “that’s my favorite!” I love them all. I have at least eight ‘favorites’ but the moons ones count as three of those. They’re just really unique pieces. Generally, they’re much more expensive and harder to find than globes of the Earth. I feel pretty lucky to have gotten my paws on these. Two found at an estate auction and gifted to me by my parents, and the third a gift from my husband!

My globes have all been collected from estate sales, garage sales, and auctions. A few have been received as a gift as well, as I mentioned above. I’m very thrifty when it comes to my collections, and this one is no exception. The price of globes seems to have really increased since I started collecting but honestly, that’s probably a good thing. I’ve definitely slowed down these days, making purchases with a lot more thought instead of just buying any globe I see. These days I prefer them made of metal, and less than the standard size of 12 inches. (Mostly because smaller means I can have more of them but goodness knows, if presented with another large one I wouldn’t turn it down!) I’m still hoping to find the unicorn of globes, the Mars globe, for dirt cheap! I definitely wouldn’t mind a few more moon globes either.

I’ve been collecting globes for probably around seven years now. Just like anything else, there is an ebb and flow to my obsession. Sometimes I’m actively hunting every chance I get, but most of the time I just let them come to me. I was pretty happy with my collection until I started working on this post. After taking photos, I started browsing the internet and trying to convince myself there was definitely room for another few above my cabinets. They just look so darn pretty grouped together!

Holding my largest, smallest and of one of my favorite metal ones!


Some vintage globes I’ve got my eye on…

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Friday Favorites #489

by Kaylah Stroup November 2, 2018
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Positively swooning over this vintage globe. It’d be such a great pop of color in my collection. Speaking of globes + maps – This map dress is the bee’s knees! These map socks are awesome and goodness gracious, this moon globe is wonderful. Don’t mind me, I’m just on a globe kick right now.

(via Lack Luster Co)

Such a pretty dress. It’s a little early but this would make a perfect New Years dress.

(via Modcloth)

Another fun globe, this time one that doubles as a memo board! Comes in two sizes too – large + small.

(via Urban Outfitters)

This necklace! There are matching earrings too!

(via Madewell)

How cute is this sticker? Love Katie Gamb‘s spooky cute style.

(via Katie Gamb)

Eye love these slippers!

(via The Sleepy Cottage)

The color! The scalloped edge! Adorable!

(via Modcloth)

This wax model is incredible. What a rad piece!

(via Vaughan and Vaughan)

Aren’t these moth patches so pretty!?

(via Anthropologie)

This pin! In case you didn’t know, Forrest Gump is my all time favorite movie. Can’t even tell you how many times I’ve seen it.

(via shevski)

This sleeping mask!

(via Little Man Handbags)

Link love…

  • How cute is this globe collection sticker!?
  • Not a particularly exciting find but these jeans are my new favorites! I need multiple pairs ASAP.
  • Some neat pieces for your oddities collection – visible frog, a skeletal model of a hand & a hip!
  • THIS is my dream door knocker. Saw one like it when we visited New Orleans a while back and have been obsessed ever since.
  • Measuring cups have literally never been prettier!
  • I’m on a mask kick right now. I’ve found a few new favorites these last few weeks, and discovered even more that I want to try. This one is at the top of my want list! Here’s a list of a few of my favorites!
  • Halloween is over, sadly, but skeleton jammies are good all year round!

Happy Friday!
xoxo

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nail art idea – the scotch tape method

by Kaylah Stroup November 1, 2018

easy triangle nail tutorial, nail tutorial

These last few weeks I’ve been experimenting with using scotch tape as a way to decorate my nails again. I first started doing this five or so years ago and even wrote a post with some tips. Playing around with this method again has me feeling all inspired! I thought it might be fun to update that old post with new tips and share a few photos of recent designs.

Sounds totally tacky to be doing your nails with scotch tape but the results are way cool and it’s super easy. Even better than that, it’s quick! In under twenty minutes you’ll have a manicure that looks like it took hours + a way steadier hand than anyone really has. As big of a fan as I am of taping off sections and stenciling in shapes, this is much easier.

How to…
Paint nail polish of your choosing on to scotch tape that is still attached to the roll. Once it’s thoroughly dry, cut the tape into whatever shape your heart desires, and apply to your nail. Seal it in with a top coat, and you’re all set!

SIMPLE. AS. THAT.

A few tips to get you started…
▴ Paint the tape before you paint your nails this way the tape has a chance to dry a little bit longer. If it’s still tacky when you try to cut it, you’re gonna make a mess.

▴ Make sure your nails are completely dry before applying the tape, or before cutting the tape for that matter. You wouldn’t want to smudge them.

▴ As long as everything is dry before you get started, the tape is easily removable if you decide halfway through your manicure you’re not in love with the direction you were heading. You can even reuse the pieces on a different nail. Be careful removing them though because the polish can flake off the tape.

▴ After you’ve decided on placement, be sure to press the tape down thoroughly. Air bubbles and corners not pressed down are basically a guarantee your manicure won’t last!

▴ Your top coat is the most important part of this process. If you don’t use one, the tape will almost immediately come off. My all-time favorite top coat has always been Seche Vite. It dries quickly and I have yet to have any issues with the tape peeling up from underneath it. Don’t be afraid to do a second coat if the corners of your tape pieces are sticking up a bit.

▴ Sometimes the small pieces of tape are really hard to place using just your fingers, try tweezers!

▴ Scissors without a straight edge, like these ones that cut different patterns, open you up to unlimited design options.

nail art inspiration nail inspiration

When you’re ready to remove it, the tape easily comes off with nail polish remover just like your polish.

If you have any questions, let me know! I’d love to see your nail creations if you decide to experiment with tape. Tag me on Instagram, @thedaintysquid.
xoxo

More nail art related posts – a few of my favorite nail tools, nail sticker how-to and lastly, #kaylahsfancynails – where you can find even more nail inspo!
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